We can form the passive in any tense. In fact, conjugation of verbs in the passive tense is rather easy, as the main verb is always in past participle form and the auxiliary verb is always be. To form the required tense, we conjugate the auxiliary verb. So, for example:
present simple: It is made
present continuous: It is being made
present perfect: It has been made
Here are some examples with most of the possible tenses:
infinitive to be made
present simple It is made.
past simple It was made.
future simple It will be made.
present continuous It is being made.
past continuous It was being made.
future continuous It will be being made.
perfect present simple It has been made.
past perfect simple It had been made.
future perfect simple It will have been made.
perfect present continuous It has been being made.
past perfect continuous It had been being made.
future perfect continuous It will have been being made.
4.20.2011
Journal 2
27 Nov 2010 >>
I woke up in one hour and its around 1pm in Japan now. OHAYO! ( good morning ). I slept at 4 this morning. Know what? They sent a notice to our school said the electric current would be cut off from 12am till 5am on Friday. I was waiting and waiting. Once the lights off, I would go to bed then. I was thinking like that. I waited till 4 and nothing ' dark ' happened... really thanks ==... Now I feel shitty now plus I am still sick. Thanks for the correct notice !!!
28 Nov 2010 >>
Boring... very boring... very very boring... 2am, I cant sleep still... I gotta wake up in 5 hours. Sure I must die this time. la la la .... ( lost control )
29 Nov 2010 >>
I HATE MY BELLY !!!!!!
9 Dec 2010 >>
Am I a BORING GOOD GIRL? shy, never known a lot of things, bother people...
Be a good person and can be boring too, I am sorry. What should I do then...?
Don't know I am laughing or crying now...
Maybe I should add a ' STUPID ' in front of the boring good girl. Coz I am stupid.
I just didn't wanna know too much things ( bad things or fake things ), tried to ignore, then I could be happier or myself.
I might be wrong... If I was always wrong, what am I then? I don't know...
Part 2 >>
Just off from work, but not tired at all, coz I am happy =D
Why I am happy tonight? mmmm.... coz a friend told me that ' be safe, don't fell down again ' when I was heading to work. SEE! this is what I say about SWEET. Not the ' I wanna give you my heart... You're my everything... I'll catch the moon, stars for you, which star you want? ... you are an angel, you are the XXX woman that I never seen before....' etc... blah blah blah~ Give me your heart? give me a knife first =="" I'm your everything, then your other things must be garbage... Moon, Start... please... this one is funnier if someone said to me in Chinese. .. You are the XXX woman, SEXIEST, WONDERFUL, CUTEST or the BEST...whatever =="" I don't know who have you met in your life, I'm the best? Well, I am not saying these are rubbish, JUST someone would say these to me on the first meeting. mmmm How to say? I know this is not a bad thing, coz everybody is different. However for me, I'll think like ' why they can say these to a stranger easily? ', seems like these are from their MOUTH but not the HEART. ... So, this has not ending and I'll stop here.
Anyway, today is a happy day. I received gifts!! What I wanted so bad before !!!
Happy happy night ^^
14 Dec 2010 >> 3:29am I am awake...
I am sorry that I cant reply to the people who send me mails at once. I like to read but sometime I will just keep the pages on but don't know what to write, cause I always have much things want to write and my English is suck and it takes me much time and energy. Plus I am stupid.
Then I upset people, cause they can see if I read, reply or delete the mails, same here.
Why I am lazy to reply? I know that feeling of being ignored as well tho.
I know I have no right to cry for this...
I'm just a stupid who cant handle doing more than one thing at the same time. :(
Before this, I had a chat with friend. We talked about body. My ass, legs, breasts are turning terribly. Stretch marks, sagging... Besides, I went to clinic tonight. Dentist asked if I smoked, even though I never smoked but where I work is full of smoky and that really kills me. Gonna spend more money on my stupid body again. Why so hard to live without worries? Can I just ignore these?
A sad lonely night again.
15 Dec 2010 >>
Sorry I am not going to respond anyone who without profile picture, or if you let me find out you are not using your own picture, that means ' cheating ', if you feel free just DO IT! I swear I won't ' CURSE ' you! (devil)
21 Dec 2010 >>
I ain't fat, but I got big belly.
I woke up in one hour and its around 1pm in Japan now. OHAYO! ( good morning ). I slept at 4 this morning. Know what? They sent a notice to our school said the electric current would be cut off from 12am till 5am on Friday. I was waiting and waiting. Once the lights off, I would go to bed then. I was thinking like that. I waited till 4 and nothing ' dark ' happened... really thanks ==... Now I feel shitty now plus I am still sick. Thanks for the correct notice !!!
28 Nov 2010 >>
Boring... very boring... very very boring... 2am, I cant sleep still... I gotta wake up in 5 hours. Sure I must die this time. la la la .... ( lost control )
29 Nov 2010 >>
I HATE MY BELLY !!!!!!
9 Dec 2010 >>
Am I a BORING GOOD GIRL? shy, never known a lot of things, bother people...
Be a good person and can be boring too, I am sorry. What should I do then...?
Don't know I am laughing or crying now...
Maybe I should add a ' STUPID ' in front of the boring good girl. Coz I am stupid.
I just didn't wanna know too much things ( bad things or fake things ), tried to ignore, then I could be happier or myself.
I might be wrong... If I was always wrong, what am I then? I don't know...
Part 2 >>
Just off from work, but not tired at all, coz I am happy =D
Why I am happy tonight? mmmm.... coz a friend told me that ' be safe, don't fell down again ' when I was heading to work. SEE! this is what I say about SWEET. Not the ' I wanna give you my heart... You're my everything... I'll catch the moon, stars for you, which star you want? ... you are an angel, you are the XXX woman that I never seen before....' etc... blah blah blah~ Give me your heart? give me a knife first =="" I'm your everything, then your other things must be garbage... Moon, Start... please... this one is funnier if someone said to me in Chinese. .. You are the XXX woman, SEXIEST, WONDERFUL, CUTEST or the BEST...whatever =="" I don't know who have you met in your life, I'm the best? Well, I am not saying these are rubbish, JUST someone would say these to me on the first meeting. mmmm How to say? I know this is not a bad thing, coz everybody is different. However for me, I'll think like ' why they can say these to a stranger easily? ', seems like these are from their MOUTH but not the HEART. ... So, this has not ending and I'll stop here.
Anyway, today is a happy day. I received gifts!! What I wanted so bad before !!!
Happy happy night ^^
14 Dec 2010 >> 3:29am I am awake...
I am sorry that I cant reply to the people who send me mails at once. I like to read but sometime I will just keep the pages on but don't know what to write, cause I always have much things want to write and my English is suck and it takes me much time and energy. Plus I am stupid.
Then I upset people, cause they can see if I read, reply or delete the mails, same here.
Why I am lazy to reply? I know that feeling of being ignored as well tho.
I know I have no right to cry for this...
I'm just a stupid who cant handle doing more than one thing at the same time. :(
Before this, I had a chat with friend. We talked about body. My ass, legs, breasts are turning terribly. Stretch marks, sagging... Besides, I went to clinic tonight. Dentist asked if I smoked, even though I never smoked but where I work is full of smoky and that really kills me. Gonna spend more money on my stupid body again. Why so hard to live without worries? Can I just ignore these?
A sad lonely night again.
15 Dec 2010 >>
Sorry I am not going to respond anyone who without profile picture, or if you let me find out you are not using your own picture, that means ' cheating ', if you feel free just DO IT! I swear I won't ' CURSE ' you! (devil)
21 Dec 2010 >>
I ain't fat, but I got big belly.
4.18.2011
Confessions of a Beautyholic - Beauty Blog: The Body Shop Vitamin C Range Overview
Confessions of a Beautyholic - Beauty Blog: The Body Shop Vitamin C Range Overview: "THE BODY SHOP LAUNCHES NEW VITAMIN C SKINCARE Modern day living often steals the radiance from your skin. Late nights, pollution and centra..."
Let's See How Many Products I Use
FOR HAIR
1. Hairtec Intensive Serum
Deep Reparation For Incredible Softness, Shine & Resilience
2. Shiseido Tsubaki Water Mist (mist with tsubaki oil EX)
Shiseido Tsubaki Shinning Shampoo and Conditioner
(Portable)
3. Stephen Knoll Collection Hydro Renew Mist EX
( This collection is very expensive, now I just have a mist for hair and it's very great and smells good. I bought it when it was sold at a discount!)
Hydro Repair Mist is the perfect tool to condition and style. Developed as styling or as a blow hair lotion, Hydro Repair Mist transforms even the wildest, most difficult hair into the soft locks. It relaxes and smoothes, taming frizz while re-hydrates, leaving the hair soft to touch and with beautiful shine.
FOR BODY
1. NIVEA Body Good-Bye Cellulite ( Gel-Cream )
2. Vaseline Total Moisture Nourishing / Vaseline Healthy White SPF24 Triple Lightening (NEW!)
Nice products from India. :)
3. St. Luke's Prickly Heat Powder ( Made in Thailand )
Is cooling, refreshing and soothing.
It is effective in relieving itchy or discomfort of prickly heat.
To be used after bath as an antiseptic and absorbent dusting powder, and also can be applied after shave to soothe skin irritation.
Apply freely several times daily.
4. Bio-Oil ( for scars, stretch marks, uneven skin tone, ageing skin and dehydrated skin )
5. Nivea Extra Whitening Pore Minimizer Antiperspirant Deodorant Roll-On
FOR FACE
1. Shiseido Perfect Whip Washing Foam
2. Nano Snow Wash
3. The Body Shop Vitamin C Facial Cleansing Polish
4. Pure Natural Essence Lotion UV
5. Cell Juer Ce-11
6. Hadanomy Collagen Mist ( spray freely daily )
1. Hairtec Intensive Serum
Deep Reparation For Incredible Softness, Shine & Resilience
2. Shiseido Tsubaki Water Mist (mist with tsubaki oil EX)
Shiseido Tsubaki Shinning Shampoo and Conditioner
(Portable)3. Stephen Knoll Collection Hydro Renew Mist EX
( This collection is very expensive, now I just have a mist for hair and it's very great and smells good. I bought it when it was sold at a discount!)
Hydro Repair Mist is the perfect tool to condition and style. Developed as styling or as a blow hair lotion, Hydro Repair Mist transforms even the wildest, most difficult hair into the soft locks. It relaxes and smoothes, taming frizz while re-hydrates, leaving the hair soft to touch and with beautiful shine.
FOR BODY
1. NIVEA Body Good-Bye Cellulite ( Gel-Cream )
2. Vaseline Total Moisture Nourishing / Vaseline Healthy White SPF24 Triple Lightening (NEW!)
Nice products from India. :)
3. St. Luke's Prickly Heat Powder ( Made in Thailand )
Is cooling, refreshing and soothing.
It is effective in relieving itchy or discomfort of prickly heat.
To be used after bath as an antiseptic and absorbent dusting powder, and also can be applied after shave to soothe skin irritation.
Apply freely several times daily.
4. Bio-Oil ( for scars, stretch marks, uneven skin tone, ageing skin and dehydrated skin )
5. Nivea Extra Whitening Pore Minimizer Antiperspirant Deodorant Roll-On
FOR FACE
1. Shiseido Perfect Whip Washing Foam
2. Nano Snow Wash
3. The Body Shop Vitamin C Facial Cleansing Polish
4. Pure Natural Essence Lotion UV
5. Cell Juer Ce-11
6. Hadanomy Collagen Mist ( spray freely daily )
女人最需要的九種安全感
一個女人的幸福感往往與安全感是聯繫在一起的。所以，一個男人，如果你能讓對方有安全感，那麽你的感情就成功了大半。
很多時候男人們都沒有搞懂一件事情，女人要的就是安全感，所以她才肯跟著你，為你洗衣做飯，一輩子守在你身邊不離不棄。但是，安全感畢竟太虛無飄渺，可能不少男人又會鬱悶——我怎麽知道怎麽樣她才有安全感？尤其是現在的都市女性，看了太多的悲歡離合，安全感似乎成為奢侈品。一個女人的幸福感往往與安全感是聯繫在一起的。所以，一個男人，如果你能讓對方有安全感，那麽你的感情就成功了大半。
1.要懂得尊重女方
不要太多地干涉對方的選擇，最好鼓勵她發展自己的專長，因為每個人都是一樣的，如果做的是自己不喜歡的東西，是不會有激情和幹勁的，你覺得好，未必她認為就是最適合自己的。現代好男人的一條重要標準是，尊重所有的女性，包括僅有一面之緣的人。
2.溫暖的肢體接觸
為何女人都愛挽男人的手？因為這樣親密，讓人感覺踏實。人其實都有身體的接觸欲望，男人女人都一樣。
掌心、懷抱的溫暖，是最令女人印象深刻的，遠比什麽鑽石更能記住一輩子。她一般在想起你時，都多半是想起你的懷抱，所以，不要吝惜擁抱和十指交纏。
3.適時的噓寒問暖
關心體貼每個女人都很受落，但是過分的關心只會讓她不勝其煩。她苦惱的時候你好好充當垃圾桶的角色就可以了。有時女人需要的，只是一個能夠訴說的物件，說完了就釋放出來了，並不一定要求結果。
儘量記住她和你提過的朋友的名字，在她遇到困境時，給予你能想到的最好的建議。
4.讓她的家人朋友都欣賞你
長輩們實在是厲害，眼睛超毒，如果你能贏得她家人、朋友的欣賞，簡直就打通了一半。因為女人通常都很容易被身邊的人影響，有讚賞你的人，在很多事情上你都會得到很多幫助。
5.儘量做到胸襟開闊、寬容忍讓
雖然現在很多男人因為原先在家就是小太陽，事事要求公平，但是，畢竟女人需要哄，所以請不要太意氣用事，如果不是涉及原則，先讓步，只有讓你們的矛盾平和下來，兩人才能冷靜下來，再尋求一個解決方法。
6.善待對方的寵物
女人們都覺得，喜歡小動物的男人心地善良，能照顧好寵物，肯定也會照顧好自己的家人。如果你實在不喜歡小動物，但是你也不要表現得太明顯，可以以婉轉溫和的方式告訴她，你對毛髮過敏之類的理由比較容易被接受。
7.要有運動愛好
有某種運動愛好的男人，較容易找到情緒的出口，你讓她感覺到是和一個心中有熱情的男人在一起，會讓她對生活充滿信心。我想，沒有一個女人喜歡和只愛喝酒發泄的男人整天生活在一起吧。
8.讓她覺得向你傾訴是安全的
如果一個女人能開誠佈公地與你溝通，說明你在她心中是有一定地位的。但是你最好懂得什麽時候該說話，什麽時候該閉嘴。不要害怕表達，可以適當地和她分享你的感受和想法，這樣她會覺得你是站在她這邊的，內心就會更加依靠你。要讓她確信，你不會因為她表達出內心想法而嘲笑她。
9.搞清楚和女性朋友的分界
無論男女，都應該有自己的朋友圈子，但是玩曖昧的男人肯定是讓女人最為痛恨的。如果你對別的女人不好意思拒絕，那麽，遲早她就會毫不可惜地拒絕你。說是虛榮心也好、沒安全感也罷，總之，她們都希望自己的男人能始終出現在自己的視線當中、聽力範圍內。你可以讓她知道你來往的朋友是誰，但是你們可以事先溝通好，大家可以在信任的基礎上互相給對方空間。適當的時候，給點甜蜜的話吧，很多時候，女人就受你這一套。
很多時候男人們都沒有搞懂一件事情，女人要的就是安全感，所以她才肯跟著你，為你洗衣做飯，一輩子守在你身邊不離不棄。但是，安全感畢竟太虛無飄渺，可能不少男人又會鬱悶——我怎麽知道怎麽樣她才有安全感？尤其是現在的都市女性，看了太多的悲歡離合，安全感似乎成為奢侈品。一個女人的幸福感往往與安全感是聯繫在一起的。所以，一個男人，如果你能讓對方有安全感，那麽你的感情就成功了大半。
1.要懂得尊重女方
不要太多地干涉對方的選擇，最好鼓勵她發展自己的專長，因為每個人都是一樣的，如果做的是自己不喜歡的東西，是不會有激情和幹勁的，你覺得好，未必她認為就是最適合自己的。現代好男人的一條重要標準是，尊重所有的女性，包括僅有一面之緣的人。
2.溫暖的肢體接觸
為何女人都愛挽男人的手？因為這樣親密，讓人感覺踏實。人其實都有身體的接觸欲望，男人女人都一樣。
掌心、懷抱的溫暖，是最令女人印象深刻的，遠比什麽鑽石更能記住一輩子。她一般在想起你時，都多半是想起你的懷抱，所以，不要吝惜擁抱和十指交纏。
3.適時的噓寒問暖
關心體貼每個女人都很受落，但是過分的關心只會讓她不勝其煩。她苦惱的時候你好好充當垃圾桶的角色就可以了。有時女人需要的，只是一個能夠訴說的物件，說完了就釋放出來了，並不一定要求結果。
儘量記住她和你提過的朋友的名字，在她遇到困境時，給予你能想到的最好的建議。
4.讓她的家人朋友都欣賞你
長輩們實在是厲害，眼睛超毒，如果你能贏得她家人、朋友的欣賞，簡直就打通了一半。因為女人通常都很容易被身邊的人影響，有讚賞你的人，在很多事情上你都會得到很多幫助。
5.儘量做到胸襟開闊、寬容忍讓
雖然現在很多男人因為原先在家就是小太陽，事事要求公平，但是，畢竟女人需要哄，所以請不要太意氣用事，如果不是涉及原則，先讓步，只有讓你們的矛盾平和下來，兩人才能冷靜下來，再尋求一個解決方法。
6.善待對方的寵物
女人們都覺得，喜歡小動物的男人心地善良，能照顧好寵物，肯定也會照顧好自己的家人。如果你實在不喜歡小動物，但是你也不要表現得太明顯，可以以婉轉溫和的方式告訴她，你對毛髮過敏之類的理由比較容易被接受。
7.要有運動愛好
有某種運動愛好的男人，較容易找到情緒的出口，你讓她感覺到是和一個心中有熱情的男人在一起，會讓她對生活充滿信心。我想，沒有一個女人喜歡和只愛喝酒發泄的男人整天生活在一起吧。
8.讓她覺得向你傾訴是安全的
如果一個女人能開誠佈公地與你溝通，說明你在她心中是有一定地位的。但是你最好懂得什麽時候該說話，什麽時候該閉嘴。不要害怕表達，可以適當地和她分享你的感受和想法，這樣她會覺得你是站在她這邊的，內心就會更加依靠你。要讓她確信，你不會因為她表達出內心想法而嘲笑她。
9.搞清楚和女性朋友的分界
無論男女，都應該有自己的朋友圈子，但是玩曖昧的男人肯定是讓女人最為痛恨的。如果你對別的女人不好意思拒絕，那麽，遲早她就會毫不可惜地拒絕你。說是虛榮心也好、沒安全感也罷，總之，她們都希望自己的男人能始終出現在自己的視線當中、聽力範圍內。你可以讓她知道你來往的朋友是誰，但是你們可以事先溝通好，大家可以在信任的基礎上互相給對方空間。適當的時候，給點甜蜜的話吧，很多時候，女人就受你這一套。
男人約會時會動哪些歪腦筋
男人認為，第一次約會如果沒能打動一個女人，隨後她就會消失，並且從此杳無音信。由于習慣性地假設沒有第二個機會，男人在第一次約會中，往往會表現得殷勤。
男人都想一次就搞定
科技發展了，我們理應有更多時間談戀愛，可事實是，都市的男男女女們不僅需要工作更長時間，住地與工作地點之間的距離也越來越遠。有調查甚至認為，每天供他們隨心所欲、任意行事的時間不過22.3分鐘。
其中女人需要用21.2分鐘確定穿什麼衣服;男人需要18.7分鐘整理頭發刮胡子。真正的空閒時間分別為1.1分鐘和3.6分鐘。當然以上說法有些誇張，可你不得不承認，約會是件很費時間的事。
為了提高命中率，57%的男性通過朋友介紹認識另一半，31%在酒吧或派對上邂逅，還有12%的人選擇約會工作夥伴。男人一旦希望接近某位女性，大多會主動邀請對方。實現這一步並不難，只要不是畏首畏尾或者自尊心過高，都應該能在輕松的心境中得以實現。
72%的男性將第一次約會的地點定在餐廳，然後看電影;27%的人是遠足或做運動，剩下的1%會想一些出人意料的方式。對男人來說，第一次約會非常重要，抱著一次就搞定心態的男性不在少數。如果第一次邀約被拒絕，他將信心大失，很可能換個女人去碰碰運氣。以為男人個個是牛皮糖，有百折不撓的信念，那就大錯特錯了。不是每個男人都有強韌的神經，經得起“摧殘”，他們同樣害怕受到挫折，擔心被無情地拒絕，容易陷于保護自己的條件性反射中。
第一次約會如果進展順利，男人會認為，接下來兩人的關係才可能長勢良好。相反，第一次約會如果沒能打動一個女人，隨後她就會消失，並且從此杳無音信。由于習慣性地假設沒有第二個機會，男人在第一次約會中，往往會表現得殷勤。
因此，女方若有接受男方的誠意，就應該相應地發出暗示，如果因為你的麻木遲鈍或者猶豫不決，不能及時向對方傳達“我也認為你不錯”的信息，不給男人們創造出利于行動的條件，也許兩個人的關係最終也不會有所進展。毫不客氣地說，嬌生慣養的男人們越來越多，他們過于羞澀，不擅長接觸女性，這類男人往往期望女人們能採取主動。
約會到一定程度，男人會首先考慮將關係更進一步。在約會時，他們始終都在考慮接吻的時機。此話並不過分。58%的男性認為，如果我們真的很合拍，第一次約會就有親密接觸，也不會減少我對她的愛意，21%的人覺得3次約會比較好、21% 超過6次約會。一般來講，當他們懷有某種親密企圖時，會首先希望了解對方的想法，同時也盡力爭取把自己的好感傳達給對方。
作為親密接觸的首要條件是互有好感。太過冒失，在大庭廣眾下，被女人賞一耳光或者把酒倒在臉上的感覺可不好。在試探女性心意這一點上，男人們絕對是敏感而有計謀的老狐狸。看電影時，假裝無意輕輕觸摸女方的手，或者用膝蓋靠近女方的膝蓋等輕微的身體接觸來確認她的反應，這是常見的演技。
在酒吧，面對吧臺並排而坐也有相同的效果，通過肩與肩相互間看似偶然的接觸，感受她的態度。如果女方立刻將手或膝蓋抽回的話，那麼可以斷定她沒有深入發展的意願，至少現在還不行。反之，她不回避，就代表有戲了。確認以後，如何實施行動呢?
延長約會時間是第一要務，提議餐後去吃甜品、一起散步，或者送女方回家。一旦提出這種邀請，基本能斷定他是醉翁之意不在酒了。能否接受接吻，能否最終以身相許?在約會前好幾個晚上，他們已在模擬從當晚約會到最終收場的行動方案，向鐵哥們請教，在網上發貼，推敲著何時、何地進行接吻。在約會期間，他們絞盡腦汁考慮下一步的行為進展，因此往往講話時心不在焉，口中咀嚼食物也全然不知其味。即使身旁的女性已進入傾心而談的佳境，他們也常常渾然不覺。
在日本甚為風靡的“電車男”故事，講的便是一位普通男性在全日本最大的BBS上，求教如何追求在新幹線上邂逅的女性，動員了上萬網民為之出謀劃策，其後這個真實事件又被改編成書、電影、電視劇、話劇，可見對于男性來說，邀約女性不容易，能成為男人之間非常有共鳴的話題。
男人們無數次在腦海中進行模擬約會情景：
穿什麼衣服、在何地見面、怎麼打招呼、在何處用餐、餐間聊些什麼話題，然後如何實施下一步驟，如此反復修改計劃，並不斷設想著是否會獲得成功，結果常常會更加緊張不安。無論有怎樣的心理準備，也無論做怎樣的模擬演練，實際約會時未必能如他們所願。
對于互有好感卻又處于相互試探階段的男女，雙方的時機與心態是否切合，是相當微妙的事情，往往因為對一個表情動作的錯誤解讀而錯過大好時機。即使女方有意，一旦錯過了機遇，就不容易成功了。如果女方表示婉拒親吻或親密舉動時，男人將做什麼應對呢?可惜，幾乎所有的男性都不會再次相求，而是幹脆放棄。
當然也有一些執著的男性，不肯放棄而設法力爭得到對方，伺機卷土重來。但是，更多的情形是，男人們已因精神上的良苦用心而疲憊不堪，又因遭受拒絕而打擊到自尊心，為了不再受到更大的傷害而寧願放棄。
因此，當你也有與他相處下去的意願，要接吻或者發生親密接觸，即便一時間尚無充分的思想準備，也應盡量講清楚，避免誤會。因為不了解對方的本意而失去了緣分，一味認定對方無誠意而放棄交往，或者為使自尊心不受傷害，擔心遭到失敗，尚未了解到對方的本意，導致錯過機會，都非常可惜。只要自己稍加表露，一切便會如願以償。遺憾的是，有些相互抱有好感的男女最終功虧一簣。
男人都想一次就搞定
科技發展了，我們理應有更多時間談戀愛，可事實是，都市的男男女女們不僅需要工作更長時間，住地與工作地點之間的距離也越來越遠。有調查甚至認為，每天供他們隨心所欲、任意行事的時間不過22.3分鐘。
其中女人需要用21.2分鐘確定穿什麼衣服;男人需要18.7分鐘整理頭發刮胡子。真正的空閒時間分別為1.1分鐘和3.6分鐘。當然以上說法有些誇張，可你不得不承認，約會是件很費時間的事。
為了提高命中率，57%的男性通過朋友介紹認識另一半，31%在酒吧或派對上邂逅，還有12%的人選擇約會工作夥伴。男人一旦希望接近某位女性，大多會主動邀請對方。實現這一步並不難，只要不是畏首畏尾或者自尊心過高，都應該能在輕松的心境中得以實現。
72%的男性將第一次約會的地點定在餐廳，然後看電影;27%的人是遠足或做運動，剩下的1%會想一些出人意料的方式。對男人來說，第一次約會非常重要，抱著一次就搞定心態的男性不在少數。如果第一次邀約被拒絕，他將信心大失，很可能換個女人去碰碰運氣。以為男人個個是牛皮糖，有百折不撓的信念，那就大錯特錯了。不是每個男人都有強韌的神經，經得起“摧殘”，他們同樣害怕受到挫折，擔心被無情地拒絕，容易陷于保護自己的條件性反射中。
第一次約會如果進展順利，男人會認為，接下來兩人的關係才可能長勢良好。相反，第一次約會如果沒能打動一個女人，隨後她就會消失，並且從此杳無音信。由于習慣性地假設沒有第二個機會，男人在第一次約會中，往往會表現得殷勤。
因此，女方若有接受男方的誠意，就應該相應地發出暗示，如果因為你的麻木遲鈍或者猶豫不決，不能及時向對方傳達“我也認為你不錯”的信息，不給男人們創造出利于行動的條件，也許兩個人的關係最終也不會有所進展。毫不客氣地說，嬌生慣養的男人們越來越多，他們過于羞澀，不擅長接觸女性，這類男人往往期望女人們能採取主動。
約會到一定程度，男人會首先考慮將關係更進一步。在約會時，他們始終都在考慮接吻的時機。此話並不過分。58%的男性認為，如果我們真的很合拍，第一次約會就有親密接觸，也不會減少我對她的愛意，21%的人覺得3次約會比較好、21% 超過6次約會。一般來講，當他們懷有某種親密企圖時，會首先希望了解對方的想法，同時也盡力爭取把自己的好感傳達給對方。
作為親密接觸的首要條件是互有好感。太過冒失，在大庭廣眾下，被女人賞一耳光或者把酒倒在臉上的感覺可不好。在試探女性心意這一點上，男人們絕對是敏感而有計謀的老狐狸。看電影時，假裝無意輕輕觸摸女方的手，或者用膝蓋靠近女方的膝蓋等輕微的身體接觸來確認她的反應，這是常見的演技。
在酒吧，面對吧臺並排而坐也有相同的效果，通過肩與肩相互間看似偶然的接觸，感受她的態度。如果女方立刻將手或膝蓋抽回的話，那麼可以斷定她沒有深入發展的意願，至少現在還不行。反之，她不回避，就代表有戲了。確認以後，如何實施行動呢?
延長約會時間是第一要務，提議餐後去吃甜品、一起散步，或者送女方回家。一旦提出這種邀請，基本能斷定他是醉翁之意不在酒了。能否接受接吻，能否最終以身相許?在約會前好幾個晚上，他們已在模擬從當晚約會到最終收場的行動方案，向鐵哥們請教，在網上發貼，推敲著何時、何地進行接吻。在約會期間，他們絞盡腦汁考慮下一步的行為進展，因此往往講話時心不在焉，口中咀嚼食物也全然不知其味。即使身旁的女性已進入傾心而談的佳境，他們也常常渾然不覺。
在日本甚為風靡的“電車男”故事，講的便是一位普通男性在全日本最大的BBS上，求教如何追求在新幹線上邂逅的女性，動員了上萬網民為之出謀劃策，其後這個真實事件又被改編成書、電影、電視劇、話劇，可見對于男性來說，邀約女性不容易，能成為男人之間非常有共鳴的話題。
男人們無數次在腦海中進行模擬約會情景：
穿什麼衣服、在何地見面、怎麼打招呼、在何處用餐、餐間聊些什麼話題，然後如何實施下一步驟，如此反復修改計劃，並不斷設想著是否會獲得成功，結果常常會更加緊張不安。無論有怎樣的心理準備，也無論做怎樣的模擬演練，實際約會時未必能如他們所願。
對于互有好感卻又處于相互試探階段的男女，雙方的時機與心態是否切合，是相當微妙的事情，往往因為對一個表情動作的錯誤解讀而錯過大好時機。即使女方有意，一旦錯過了機遇，就不容易成功了。如果女方表示婉拒親吻或親密舉動時，男人將做什麼應對呢?可惜，幾乎所有的男性都不會再次相求，而是幹脆放棄。
當然也有一些執著的男性，不肯放棄而設法力爭得到對方，伺機卷土重來。但是，更多的情形是，男人們已因精神上的良苦用心而疲憊不堪，又因遭受拒絕而打擊到自尊心，為了不再受到更大的傷害而寧願放棄。
因此，當你也有與他相處下去的意願，要接吻或者發生親密接觸，即便一時間尚無充分的思想準備，也應盡量講清楚，避免誤會。因為不了解對方的本意而失去了緣分，一味認定對方無誠意而放棄交往，或者為使自尊心不受傷害，擔心遭到失敗，尚未了解到對方的本意，導致錯過機會，都非常可惜。只要自己稍加表露，一切便會如願以償。遺憾的是，有些相互抱有好感的男女最終功虧一簣。
有一種女人嫁給誰都幸福
我見到明依是在好友的聚會上，一個35歲的女人，中等姿色
，學歷也不高，卻嫁了個氣宇軒昂的好老公，他據說是碩士，
後來做傢俱生意發了家，結婚10年，有一個粉雕玉鐲的小女
兒，好友說完後半妒半羨地感歎，嫁到這麼好的男人，明依真
幸福，我笑著不說話，想來她的故事不會這麼簡單。
幸福能力1 會做菜，會煲湯，會踏實過日子
明依嫁給老公的時候，他還是大學裏年輕的講師，站在講臺
上激情飛揚地大談犬儒主義和叔本華，台下的女生們多數是
沖著英俊老師來的，明依全身心的投入和迷戀這份感情，那
時候她當然不會去考慮臺上氣質非凡的男人名下只有一間20
平米的筒子樓宿舍。
婚後的現狀雖然不盡如人意，但如膠似漆的愛情可以彌補一切。
小倆口一起在公共用水間洗衣服，一人一頭擰床單；
在煙薰火燎的樓道裏做飯，飯後老公陪著她邊洗碗邊聊天；
週末手拉手去看場電影或是回婆家吃頓飯。
明依覺得小日子雖然清貧，但一樣覺得幸福甜蜜，她把眼光
從簡陋的家，樸素的衣裳，自己光禿禿的脖子手指上移開，
每月精打細算的捂著手中不多的錢把日子過好，明依做得一
手好菜，老公最愛喝她熬的湯，排骨燉蓮藕，鯽魚蘿蔔絲，
芋頭娃娃菜……
每次喝的肚兒圓圓才放下碗。看到老公簡單滿足的微笑，明依
覺得，這就是幸福。
幸福能力2 對婚姻別期望太高，少抱怨，少糾結於小事
懷上孩子的時候，老公的事業剛起步，天天周旋于客戶和朋友
間，請客吃飯，陪酒，陪玩，每晚不到深更半夜回不了家。
明依非常難過，面前的男人雖然還是熟悉的面孔，卻好像完
全換了一個靈魂。
他沒時間對著大肚子的老婆噓寒問暖，沒精力回應老婆的溫
存關切，在生活的殘酷考驗下，他還原了男人愛事業不愛美
人的本質，簡直就是一個工作狂。
明依覺得自己的溫柔克己完全白費了，眼前的男人已經不是
當初自己深愛的那一個，再勉強下去還有什麼意義?
定居美國的大姐回來看她，明依哭著告訴她：
老公給不了我想要的幸福，我想離婚。
大姐緘默，第二天給她帶來一本美國專欄女作家的暢銷小集
子，裏面有一句話讓明依有所觸動：有一種女人，不管她嫁
的是建築工人還是國會議員，她都有能力讓自己過得幸福。
沒錯，女人的幸福，為什麼要靠男人給呢？
每個女人，都應該有讓自己，讓家庭幸福的能力。
大著肚子的明依向父母求援，請媽媽過來幫忙買菜做飯，照
顧這個自己無力兼顧的小家。
她強迫自己不去想煩心的事情，每天吃好睡好，安心養胎；
她不再等老公夜歸，不再像以前那樣每天纏著他問長問短，
不再拿雞毛蒜皮的小事去煩他；
在他偶爾有空的時間裏讓他攙著自己散步，彼此取笑著對方
為孩子取名字。也怪了，一天天平靜安穩地過去，原本覺得
天昏暗地的生活，漸漸變得陽光燦爛起來。
女兒快3歲了，他們搬了新家。錢都花在房款上了，明依雇
了個油漆匠把牆一刷，購置了簡單的傢俱，就這樣湊合著先
搬進去了。
老公每天回家都能看到一點點新的變化：
客廳裏別致的燈罩是用硬紙殼蒙上米色暗紅碎花圖案的棉布做的；
自己到海南出差帶回來的椰子，吃剩的硬殼被巧妙改造成了
造型可愛的小豬撲滿；捲筒紙用完了，明依給簡芯細緻地裹
上了一層米白色亞麻細布，教女兒用蠟筆塗鴉，畫出五彩的
虹，綠的樹，藍色的河流，金色的太陽公公，這樣一個DIY
小筆筒擺在書桌上，做爸爸的每次看到心裏都暖洋洋的。
一個原本平凡的空間在明依手裏漸漸改頭換面，一天比一天
豐富，一天比一天有情趣。
幸福能力3 培養自己的興趣愛好，照顧好自己在前，不冷
落家庭在後
湯妮的出現差點兒擊碎了明依的幸福夢想。她是老公生意上
的重要合夥人之一，年輕，家境富裕，有生意頭腦和管理能
力，帶著一種咄咄逼人的美和氣勢。
湯妮明顯地向老公老公表示好感，根本不在乎他的已婚身份，
男人到了這種地步，不免有些心猿意馬，曖昧不明。
很多人都來向明依告密，有的是打抱不平，有的純粹為了看
熱鬧。
明依卻還是和以前一樣，看自己的書，種自己的花花草草，
照顧剛上小學的女兒。
在老公回家的時候，給他送上舒服的拖鞋；
在他起床洗漱的時候，提前給他擠好牙膏。
她對烹調的興趣越發濃厚，時不時來些新奇的花樣。
比如把香蕉切成小塊，澆上優酪乳，然後裹上全麥餅乾屑；
去鳳凰旅遊的時候學會了用蒜葉和新鮮芫菜加乾辣椒熗炒；
跟婆婆學會了做四川泡菜。
種種小創意讓在外面吃慣了大魚大肉的老公回到家來就會
忍不住多添一碗飯，贊一句，還是家裏的菜好吃。
明依把週末的時間精心策劃起來，老公有空的時候，帶上孩
子，開車到附近的農家樂，踏青，看紅葉，老公沒空陪她，
她就自己帶著女兒去兒童樂園，或是看最新上映的動畫大片。
每次娘倆兒都開心的手牽手回家，女兒歡聲笑語，明依紅光
滿面。
老公終日擔心，如果明依提出那個難堪的問題，他不知道該
如何回答。但明依開開心心地過自己的日子，從來不多問一句。
當然明依也有變化：她恢復了幾分婚前活潑可愛的樣子，穿衣
打扮越發精緻；她參加了瑜伽課，學打網球；
她組織姐妹旅行團去尼泊爾，回來容光煥發，給女兒帶回一
條手工繡花的小裙子，送老公一個烏木鑲銀的煙灰缸；
她甚至開始學習英文，居然可以磕磕巴巴地和美國網友聊天!
這個跟了自己10年的女人身上原來還有那麼多自己不瞭解的
特質和能量，這一切都讓他感覺既陌生又熟悉，並深深為之
吸引。
湯妮的事情居然就這麼慢慢地淡了，沒了，女友去看明依，
崇拜無比地追問她處理方式。明依笑說，見怪不怪，其怪自敗。
以前我老覺得嫁個好老公就能幸福，現在看起來，
女人的幸福不是靠男人給的。
女人要有讓自己幸福的能力。熱愛生活，照顧好家庭，不冷落
自己，這才是女人真正的幸福。
這話有道理，一個家庭幸不幸福，80%以上取決於女主人。
有能力讓自己幸福，有能力給男人幸福，才是聰明的好女人。
非常喜歡這樣的一個故事
遇到什麼不開心的事情或者想不通的事情就翻出來看一下
然後學著釋然
人最大的幸福應該是自己給的
尤其是女人
生活從來都不乏色彩
只是有時候我們會被悲傷仇恨嫉妒蒙蔽了雙眼
一頭紮進去不願意出來
畫地為牢
一遍又一遍地重複自己的悲傷
其實女人不必如此
不用委屈著自己的心情
快樂永遠不缺少理由
沒有誰必須是誰的太陽或月亮
也沒有誰離開誰就會窒息而亡
學著自己給自己製造快樂和幸福
用自身的魅力去吸引著別人
而不是死纏爛打地拖著某人學著去理解去體諒
學著去遺忘一些不愉快的事情
學著放棄糾纏於雞毛蒜皮的小事
學著忍耐淡然
學著忽視表面的不安
學著深信愛著的人
，學歷也不高，卻嫁了個氣宇軒昂的好老公，他據說是碩士，
後來做傢俱生意發了家，結婚10年，有一個粉雕玉鐲的小女
兒，好友說完後半妒半羨地感歎，嫁到這麼好的男人，明依真
幸福，我笑著不說話，想來她的故事不會這麼簡單。
幸福能力1 會做菜，會煲湯，會踏實過日子
明依嫁給老公的時候，他還是大學裏年輕的講師，站在講臺
上激情飛揚地大談犬儒主義和叔本華，台下的女生們多數是
沖著英俊老師來的，明依全身心的投入和迷戀這份感情，那
時候她當然不會去考慮臺上氣質非凡的男人名下只有一間20
平米的筒子樓宿舍。
婚後的現狀雖然不盡如人意，但如膠似漆的愛情可以彌補一切。
小倆口一起在公共用水間洗衣服，一人一頭擰床單；
在煙薰火燎的樓道裏做飯，飯後老公陪著她邊洗碗邊聊天；
週末手拉手去看場電影或是回婆家吃頓飯。
明依覺得小日子雖然清貧，但一樣覺得幸福甜蜜，她把眼光
從簡陋的家，樸素的衣裳，自己光禿禿的脖子手指上移開，
每月精打細算的捂著手中不多的錢把日子過好，明依做得一
手好菜，老公最愛喝她熬的湯，排骨燉蓮藕，鯽魚蘿蔔絲，
芋頭娃娃菜……
每次喝的肚兒圓圓才放下碗。看到老公簡單滿足的微笑，明依
覺得，這就是幸福。
幸福能力2 對婚姻別期望太高，少抱怨，少糾結於小事
懷上孩子的時候，老公的事業剛起步，天天周旋于客戶和朋友
間，請客吃飯，陪酒，陪玩，每晚不到深更半夜回不了家。
明依非常難過，面前的男人雖然還是熟悉的面孔，卻好像完
全換了一個靈魂。
他沒時間對著大肚子的老婆噓寒問暖，沒精力回應老婆的溫
存關切，在生活的殘酷考驗下，他還原了男人愛事業不愛美
人的本質，簡直就是一個工作狂。
明依覺得自己的溫柔克己完全白費了，眼前的男人已經不是
當初自己深愛的那一個，再勉強下去還有什麼意義?
定居美國的大姐回來看她，明依哭著告訴她：
老公給不了我想要的幸福，我想離婚。
大姐緘默，第二天給她帶來一本美國專欄女作家的暢銷小集
子，裏面有一句話讓明依有所觸動：有一種女人，不管她嫁
的是建築工人還是國會議員，她都有能力讓自己過得幸福。
沒錯，女人的幸福，為什麼要靠男人給呢？
每個女人，都應該有讓自己，讓家庭幸福的能力。
大著肚子的明依向父母求援，請媽媽過來幫忙買菜做飯，照
顧這個自己無力兼顧的小家。
她強迫自己不去想煩心的事情，每天吃好睡好，安心養胎；
她不再等老公夜歸，不再像以前那樣每天纏著他問長問短，
不再拿雞毛蒜皮的小事去煩他；
在他偶爾有空的時間裏讓他攙著自己散步，彼此取笑著對方
為孩子取名字。也怪了，一天天平靜安穩地過去，原本覺得
天昏暗地的生活，漸漸變得陽光燦爛起來。
女兒快3歲了，他們搬了新家。錢都花在房款上了，明依雇
了個油漆匠把牆一刷，購置了簡單的傢俱，就這樣湊合著先
搬進去了。
老公每天回家都能看到一點點新的變化：
客廳裏別致的燈罩是用硬紙殼蒙上米色暗紅碎花圖案的棉布做的；
自己到海南出差帶回來的椰子，吃剩的硬殼被巧妙改造成了
造型可愛的小豬撲滿；捲筒紙用完了，明依給簡芯細緻地裹
上了一層米白色亞麻細布，教女兒用蠟筆塗鴉，畫出五彩的
虹，綠的樹，藍色的河流，金色的太陽公公，這樣一個DIY
小筆筒擺在書桌上，做爸爸的每次看到心裏都暖洋洋的。
一個原本平凡的空間在明依手裏漸漸改頭換面，一天比一天
豐富，一天比一天有情趣。
幸福能力3 培養自己的興趣愛好，照顧好自己在前，不冷
落家庭在後
湯妮的出現差點兒擊碎了明依的幸福夢想。她是老公生意上
的重要合夥人之一，年輕，家境富裕，有生意頭腦和管理能
力，帶著一種咄咄逼人的美和氣勢。
湯妮明顯地向老公老公表示好感，根本不在乎他的已婚身份，
男人到了這種地步，不免有些心猿意馬，曖昧不明。
很多人都來向明依告密，有的是打抱不平，有的純粹為了看
熱鬧。
明依卻還是和以前一樣，看自己的書，種自己的花花草草，
照顧剛上小學的女兒。
在老公回家的時候，給他送上舒服的拖鞋；
在他起床洗漱的時候，提前給他擠好牙膏。
她對烹調的興趣越發濃厚，時不時來些新奇的花樣。
比如把香蕉切成小塊，澆上優酪乳，然後裹上全麥餅乾屑；
去鳳凰旅遊的時候學會了用蒜葉和新鮮芫菜加乾辣椒熗炒；
跟婆婆學會了做四川泡菜。
種種小創意讓在外面吃慣了大魚大肉的老公回到家來就會
忍不住多添一碗飯，贊一句，還是家裏的菜好吃。
明依把週末的時間精心策劃起來，老公有空的時候，帶上孩
子，開車到附近的農家樂，踏青，看紅葉，老公沒空陪她，
她就自己帶著女兒去兒童樂園，或是看最新上映的動畫大片。
每次娘倆兒都開心的手牽手回家，女兒歡聲笑語，明依紅光
滿面。
老公終日擔心，如果明依提出那個難堪的問題，他不知道該
如何回答。但明依開開心心地過自己的日子，從來不多問一句。
當然明依也有變化：她恢復了幾分婚前活潑可愛的樣子，穿衣
打扮越發精緻；她參加了瑜伽課，學打網球；
她組織姐妹旅行團去尼泊爾，回來容光煥發，給女兒帶回一
條手工繡花的小裙子，送老公一個烏木鑲銀的煙灰缸；
她甚至開始學習英文，居然可以磕磕巴巴地和美國網友聊天!
這個跟了自己10年的女人身上原來還有那麼多自己不瞭解的
特質和能量，這一切都讓他感覺既陌生又熟悉，並深深為之
吸引。
湯妮的事情居然就這麼慢慢地淡了，沒了，女友去看明依，
崇拜無比地追問她處理方式。明依笑說，見怪不怪，其怪自敗。
以前我老覺得嫁個好老公就能幸福，現在看起來，
女人的幸福不是靠男人給的。
女人要有讓自己幸福的能力。熱愛生活，照顧好家庭，不冷落
自己，這才是女人真正的幸福。
這話有道理，一個家庭幸不幸福，80%以上取決於女主人。
有能力讓自己幸福，有能力給男人幸福，才是聰明的好女人。
非常喜歡這樣的一個故事
遇到什麼不開心的事情或者想不通的事情就翻出來看一下
然後學著釋然
人最大的幸福應該是自己給的
尤其是女人
生活從來都不乏色彩
只是有時候我們會被悲傷仇恨嫉妒蒙蔽了雙眼
一頭紮進去不願意出來
畫地為牢
一遍又一遍地重複自己的悲傷
其實女人不必如此
不用委屈著自己的心情
快樂永遠不缺少理由
沒有誰必須是誰的太陽或月亮
也沒有誰離開誰就會窒息而亡
學著自己給自己製造快樂和幸福
用自身的魅力去吸引著別人
而不是死纏爛打地拖著某人學著去理解去體諒
學著去遺忘一些不愉快的事情
學著放棄糾纏於雞毛蒜皮的小事
學著忍耐淡然
學著忽視表面的不安
學著深信愛著的人
揭秘十二星座不會嫌棄窮小子的女孩
第五名：雙魚座
雙魚座是非常兩極化的，一種是為愛往前飛，另外一種是視錢如命，為錢做小老婆也可以，但是為愛往前飛的那種呢，她就可能覺得錢不是最重要的，感覺最重要，老實說遇到這種感覺的雙魚不是很多，但是如果她遇到了，她真的就有那種驚天地泣鬼神的精神啦，可是因為數量太少，所以排在第五名，但是她們有這個膽量，有這個勇氣是真的。
第四名：雙子座
月亮金星在雙子座的女生比較天真樂觀，而且她也覺得兩個人快樂最重要，兩個人很快樂的話，就算合吃一個麵包她也覺得甜蜜，所以她就是比較童話式的人物想像，即便她的年紀已經過了，她也還是抱著這樣的期待，她覺得世界上還是有奇跡，而且她相信自己的眼光，她覺得這麼善良的人，不可能不發達的。
第三名：水瓶座
她覺得無所謂。因為她其實對於結婚這件事情很有平常心。她覺得在婚姻中，她要的主要還是對方要讓她獨立，有個體的自由，而這個是大於對方有沒有錢的。只要你讓她有自由的感覺，跟你在一起很舒服，同時你也可以照顧她很多事情，她也可以照顧你很多事情——這種合拍的感覺比你有沒有錢更重要。因為經濟上她認為她可以獨立，她也不會奢望你給她太多，給她太多她會有負擔。
第二名：金牛座
月亮金星的金牛座分兩種，一種是她本身蠻有眼光，蠻有品位，也很會賺錢，很高檔，如果她到了這個階層還沒有遇到與她相配的話，她也很難產生來電的感覺；可是還有一款是比較死心眼的，本來是很理性的，但是如果她愛上了，她就不管三七二十一，只看到對方的優點，而且她會跟家裡抗衡，你越不看好，她越要堅持下去，而且她們知道自己有苦幹實幹的精神，所以就算有問題，她們也扛得起，她們的穩定性是很高的。
第一名：白羊座
她們是很靠感覺的星座，而且很愛跟對方一起打拼的感覺，對方如果有錢了，她反而會覺得沒有感覺，而且沒有戰鬥力。她本身能力很強，也愛展現自己的能力，很喜歡這種感覺。所以你窮並不要緊，重點是要被她崇拜，或是有某種才華吸引她，讓她非常佩服。
雙魚座是非常兩極化的，一種是為愛往前飛，另外一種是視錢如命，為錢做小老婆也可以，但是為愛往前飛的那種呢，她就可能覺得錢不是最重要的，感覺最重要，老實說遇到這種感覺的雙魚不是很多，但是如果她遇到了，她真的就有那種驚天地泣鬼神的精神啦，可是因為數量太少，所以排在第五名，但是她們有這個膽量，有這個勇氣是真的。
第四名：雙子座
月亮金星在雙子座的女生比較天真樂觀，而且她也覺得兩個人快樂最重要，兩個人很快樂的話，就算合吃一個麵包她也覺得甜蜜，所以她就是比較童話式的人物想像，即便她的年紀已經過了，她也還是抱著這樣的期待，她覺得世界上還是有奇跡，而且她相信自己的眼光，她覺得這麼善良的人，不可能不發達的。
第三名：水瓶座
她覺得無所謂。因為她其實對於結婚這件事情很有平常心。她覺得在婚姻中，她要的主要還是對方要讓她獨立，有個體的自由，而這個是大於對方有沒有錢的。只要你讓她有自由的感覺，跟你在一起很舒服，同時你也可以照顧她很多事情，她也可以照顧你很多事情——這種合拍的感覺比你有沒有錢更重要。因為經濟上她認為她可以獨立，她也不會奢望你給她太多，給她太多她會有負擔。
第二名：金牛座
月亮金星的金牛座分兩種，一種是她本身蠻有眼光，蠻有品位，也很會賺錢，很高檔，如果她到了這個階層還沒有遇到與她相配的話，她也很難產生來電的感覺；可是還有一款是比較死心眼的，本來是很理性的，但是如果她愛上了，她就不管三七二十一，只看到對方的優點，而且她會跟家裡抗衡，你越不看好，她越要堅持下去，而且她們知道自己有苦幹實幹的精神，所以就算有問題，她們也扛得起，她們的穩定性是很高的。
第一名：白羊座
她們是很靠感覺的星座，而且很愛跟對方一起打拼的感覺，對方如果有錢了，她反而會覺得沒有感覺，而且沒有戰鬥力。她本身能力很強，也愛展現自己的能力，很喜歡這種感覺。所以你窮並不要緊，重點是要被她崇拜，或是有某種才華吸引她，讓她非常佩服。
男人在擁有了女人以後才知道……
男人在沒有女人之前，什麼東西整理的妥妥當當；男人有了女人之後，把什麼東西都搞得亂七八糟，不是因為男人變懶了，而是因為男人喜歡一邊看著女人替他收拾東西一邊嘮叨自己的邋遢，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前,生病了能捱則捱，實在不行了才去看醫生；男人有了女人之後，生了丁點的小病都要告訴女人，不是男人變得嬌貴了，而是因為男人喜歡看見女人為他擔心的樣子和焦急的神態，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，吃飯不需要人陪；男人有了女人之後，即使女人不餓，男人也希望女人坐在對面看著自己想小孩一樣狼吞虎咽的吃，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，再累也不說累；男人有了女人之後，即使不累，也說自己累，男人希望女人用她那溫柔的雙手給自己按摩，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，都是自己一個人下班回家；男人有了女人之後，如果偶爾有一次下班後沒有見到女人，感到自己很孤獨，無所事事；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是嘴上說“男人有淚不輕彈”；男人有了女人之後，明白了那是因為“只因未到傷心處”；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是嘴上說“愛一個就是愛一個人的缺點”；男人有了女人之後，要用實際行動來證明這句話；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為女人做什麼事都應該按照男人的意願來做；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人也有自己的圈子，也有自己的生活方式，男人不能夠幹預；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為男人應當一諾千金；男人有了女人之後，明白了有時候也需要說一些善意的謊言；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是不理解為何女人喜歡流淚；男人有了女人之後，明白了那是因為她最愛的人傷害了她；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是對女人的傷心感到無所適從；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人在最悲傷的時候只需要男人抱一抱她，讓她有依靠的感覺，僅此而已；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為女人喜歡浪漫；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人真正渴求的最浪漫的事就是和男人一起慢慢變老；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為自己應當被別人疼；男人有了女人之後，學會了疼愛身邊的每一個人；
男人在沒有女人之前，過著一個人的假期；男人有了女人之後，男人則是過女人的假期；
男人在沒有女人之前，過著黑白顛倒的生活；男人有了女人之後，生活變得非常有規律；
男人在沒有女人之前，每天抽多少煙都無所謂；男人有了女人之後，總是在克制自己，因為男人明白了現在男人健康不再是男人一個的健康；
男人在沒有女人之前，還是一個男孩；男人有了女人之後，才變成了一個男人。
男人在沒有女人之前,生病了能捱則捱，實在不行了才去看醫生；男人有了女人之後，生了丁點的小病都要告訴女人，不是男人變得嬌貴了，而是因為男人喜歡看見女人為他擔心的樣子和焦急的神態，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，吃飯不需要人陪；男人有了女人之後，即使女人不餓，男人也希望女人坐在對面看著自己想小孩一樣狼吞虎咽的吃，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，再累也不說累；男人有了女人之後，即使不累，也說自己累，男人希望女人用她那溫柔的雙手給自己按摩，男人覺得這是一種幸福；
男人在沒有女人之前，都是自己一個人下班回家；男人有了女人之後，如果偶爾有一次下班後沒有見到女人，感到自己很孤獨，無所事事；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是嘴上說“男人有淚不輕彈”；男人有了女人之後，明白了那是因為“只因未到傷心處”；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是嘴上說“愛一個就是愛一個人的缺點”；男人有了女人之後，要用實際行動來證明這句話；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為女人做什麼事都應該按照男人的意願來做；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人也有自己的圈子，也有自己的生活方式，男人不能夠幹預；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為男人應當一諾千金；男人有了女人之後，明白了有時候也需要說一些善意的謊言；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是不理解為何女人喜歡流淚；男人有了女人之後，明白了那是因為她最愛的人傷害了她；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是對女人的傷心感到無所適從；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人在最悲傷的時候只需要男人抱一抱她，讓她有依靠的感覺，僅此而已；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為女人喜歡浪漫；男人有了女人之後，明白了女人真正渴求的最浪漫的事就是和男人一起慢慢變老；
男人在沒有女人之前，總是認為自己應當被別人疼；男人有了女人之後，學會了疼愛身邊的每一個人；
男人在沒有女人之前，過著一個人的假期；男人有了女人之後，男人則是過女人的假期；
男人在沒有女人之前，過著黑白顛倒的生活；男人有了女人之後，生活變得非常有規律；
男人在沒有女人之前，每天抽多少煙都無所謂；男人有了女人之後，總是在克制自己，因為男人明白了現在男人健康不再是男人一個的健康；
男人在沒有女人之前，還是一個男孩；男人有了女人之後，才變成了一個男人。
一個人臉上太多的笑是因為心裡有太多的痛
總有一些人，他們看上去整天都很開心，嘻嘻哈哈的，
沒有煩惱，像個小孩，他們會說玩是我最大的樂趣，我很喜歡玩，
我什麼都會玩人多的時候他們臉上總掛著笑容，好多人都會羨慕他們，
然而這其實是他們最悲哀的地方，他們不想讓別人看到自己難過的一面，
更沒有能力一個人獨處，因為當夜深人靜的時候，
他不知道一個人會發生什麼事，坐在窗前冥想走過的點滴
沒有人讀的懂他們，想著想著貌似快樂的他們就會黯然流下一臉的悲傷，
然後自己對自己說：「其實也沒什麼，命運吧！」
所以他們就整天逼自己笑，以此來逃避那些常人所不能不承受的痛苦!
他們貌似很堅強，因為在別人看來，他們什麼事都能微笑著去面對，
但事實上他們長著世界上最脆弱的心靈，只是長期的偽裝使得別人很難發現他們內心深處的創傷。
他們其實非常孤獨，雖然看到他們時都是在跟一群人談天說地，那是因為他們實在不能承受一個人時的折磨！
他們只想簡簡單單、快快樂樂的活著，期待並且相信每個人給的笑容都是真心的，
希望身邊的人都是真正的喜歡自己。即使別人小小的意見，也會另他們難過好久，
他們真的真的很介意，介意自己不被人喜歡。因為，他們總是為別人想的很多，
對別人總是比對自己好; 把能對喜歡的人好當做幸福，喜歡別人比喜歡自己多。
他們總是那樣，前一秒還傷心的流著淚，後一秒出現在朋友面前的時候，
已經滿臉溢著燦爛的笑容。有人說他們是向日葵，是的，他們在意的人就像是太陽，
在面對太陽的時候永遠是明艷的花瓣，而太陽照不到的背面，那悲傷藏得那麼好，不願被看見。
他們嚮往放縱自由的生活，卻必須為了誰很努力的朝另外的一個方向活著，很累很累，
卻仍是心甘情願。離自己的夢境越來越來遠，不得不面對從未想過的爭奪和複雜，
恐慌、不知所措。只有面對最信賴的人時，才會卸下盔甲，委屈的流下眼淚。
因為在他們心裡，笑就是開心，哭就是難過，接近就是喜歡，遠離就是討厭。
但其實不是，他們明白了，心好傷，眼淚就沒忍住。
哭過之後，笑笑得擦乾眼淚，說，沒關係，我可以做的很好的。
他們好像無所不能，好像總是不會有煩惱，好像什麼問題都能輕而易舉的解決，
總是喜歡喜歡出現在流淚的人面前，笑嘻嘻的逗著笑。而面對自己的問題，
他們卻茫然無措，面對自己的悲傷，他們只會躲在人們看不見的角落裡慢慢由傷口越裂越大。
他們的想法非常簡單，說出來的就是心裡所想的，肚子裡不會拐七道八道的小彎，
無心的話可能會引起別人的誤解。所以，請別記恨他們，他們從不願傷害誰，小小的錯誤就能讓他們懊悔很久。
他們其實非常單純，甚至你曾經給了他一個微笑他也會一輩子記得你的好，
因此他們的世界觀其實也很簡單，他們很容易受蠱惑，請不要輕易的傷害他們的感情，
因為一旦傷害了，那就將永遠彌補不回來。如果你身邊有這種人請你給予他（她），
那怕是鳳毛麟角的那點關懷，讓他（她）知道這個世界沒有拋棄他們。
哭得笑了，笑得麻木了，傷得痛了，痛得也麻木了。以前的命運可能已經注定，以後的命運相信能走出自己的路。
沒有煩惱，像個小孩，他們會說玩是我最大的樂趣，我很喜歡玩，
我什麼都會玩人多的時候他們臉上總掛著笑容，好多人都會羨慕他們，
然而這其實是他們最悲哀的地方，他們不想讓別人看到自己難過的一面，
更沒有能力一個人獨處，因為當夜深人靜的時候，
他不知道一個人會發生什麼事，坐在窗前冥想走過的點滴
沒有人讀的懂他們，想著想著貌似快樂的他們就會黯然流下一臉的悲傷，
然後自己對自己說：「其實也沒什麼，命運吧！」
所以他們就整天逼自己笑，以此來逃避那些常人所不能不承受的痛苦!
他們貌似很堅強，因為在別人看來，他們什麼事都能微笑著去面對，
但事實上他們長著世界上最脆弱的心靈，只是長期的偽裝使得別人很難發現他們內心深處的創傷。
他們其實非常孤獨，雖然看到他們時都是在跟一群人談天說地，那是因為他們實在不能承受一個人時的折磨！
他們只想簡簡單單、快快樂樂的活著，期待並且相信每個人給的笑容都是真心的，
希望身邊的人都是真正的喜歡自己。即使別人小小的意見，也會另他們難過好久，
他們真的真的很介意，介意自己不被人喜歡。因為，他們總是為別人想的很多，
對別人總是比對自己好; 把能對喜歡的人好當做幸福，喜歡別人比喜歡自己多。
他們總是那樣，前一秒還傷心的流著淚，後一秒出現在朋友面前的時候，
已經滿臉溢著燦爛的笑容。有人說他們是向日葵，是的，他們在意的人就像是太陽，
在面對太陽的時候永遠是明艷的花瓣，而太陽照不到的背面，那悲傷藏得那麼好，不願被看見。
他們嚮往放縱自由的生活，卻必須為了誰很努力的朝另外的一個方向活著，很累很累，
卻仍是心甘情願。離自己的夢境越來越來遠，不得不面對從未想過的爭奪和複雜，
恐慌、不知所措。只有面對最信賴的人時，才會卸下盔甲，委屈的流下眼淚。
因為在他們心裡，笑就是開心，哭就是難過，接近就是喜歡，遠離就是討厭。
但其實不是，他們明白了，心好傷，眼淚就沒忍住。
哭過之後，笑笑得擦乾眼淚，說，沒關係，我可以做的很好的。
他們好像無所不能，好像總是不會有煩惱，好像什麼問題都能輕而易舉的解決，
總是喜歡喜歡出現在流淚的人面前，笑嘻嘻的逗著笑。而面對自己的問題，
他們卻茫然無措，面對自己的悲傷，他們只會躲在人們看不見的角落裡慢慢由傷口越裂越大。
他們的想法非常簡單，說出來的就是心裡所想的，肚子裡不會拐七道八道的小彎，
無心的話可能會引起別人的誤解。所以，請別記恨他們，他們從不願傷害誰，小小的錯誤就能讓他們懊悔很久。
他們其實非常單純，甚至你曾經給了他一個微笑他也會一輩子記得你的好，
因此他們的世界觀其實也很簡單，他們很容易受蠱惑，請不要輕易的傷害他們的感情，
因為一旦傷害了，那就將永遠彌補不回來。如果你身邊有這種人請你給予他（她），
那怕是鳳毛麟角的那點關懷，讓他（她）知道這個世界沒有拋棄他們。
哭得笑了，笑得麻木了，傷得痛了，痛得也麻木了。以前的命運可能已經注定，以後的命運相信能走出自己的路。
當一個男人做出這些事，他真的很愛你了
很多女人常說男人的話不能信，誰都能靠的住，就是男人靠不住之類的話，很可悲只能說你沒有遇到好男人，或者說，根本不了解男人。一個男人如果真的愛你的話，就一定會做出下面這些事：
一、願意為你掏錢
錢，在感情生活中不是最重要的，但是是必須的。一個男人如果是真的愛你的話，就不會為你去計算錢，只要你需要的合理，有能力支付，就一定不會不答應。因為在他心裡，連你都是他的了，為什麼還不能給你花錢？
二、願意聽你訴苦
女人常常會有很多的不開心事情 。在男人看來很多只是很小的事情，甚至不值得去在乎。一個愛你的男人，會希望了解到你在想什麼，會願意聽你的訴苦，聽完你很多的話後，再發表下評論，安慰下你。
三、願意為你讓自己受苦
年輕的男人，大多數是愛拼搏的，自己苦一點，累一點，沒有關係，經濟條件有限的人，會自己減少開支，來付出在感情上，有能力的人，則會在做每一件事的時候，都在考慮關於你的未來。自己吃飯的時候，會在想你有沒有吃，自己在娛樂的時候，總會想到要是能把你帶去就好了，自己在開心的時候，總會想到你這時候會是怎樣的心情，總之不管自己處於什麼狀態，都會想到你。
四、願意為你收場
兩個人在一起吃飯，常常女生最後都會說吃不下了，愛你的男人，會情願幫你的吃完剩下的。現在這個年齡的男人，大多數在家裡是被當著寶貝養大的，一直都是家人付出，自己享受，如果真的很愛一個人，他會放下自己，去為了愛的人。
五、在關鍵時候，總會護住你
兩個人一起逛街的時候，愛你的男人會走在靠馬路的一邊，而你則在靠馬路里面的一邊，這樣你會很安全。登山的時候，愛你的男人總會在你後面，可以保護著你向上爬。下雨的時候，總會把傘向你那邊多傾斜一點，即使自己淋濕了，也不想讓你受到一點點的雨淋。刮大風的時候，會緊緊抱住你，不讓你被風吹到…… 不管在什麼情況下，都願意盡量減少給你帶去的傷害。
一個好男人，是需要一個好女人好好把握的，也許你現在身邊的男人並不完美，並不是你一直所憧憬的那樣的王子般的男人，但是他只要是真心對你好的，你就應該去珍惜，一個女人對男人最大的珍惜，就是好好的去愛他，心裡只有他一個，願意和他一起去承受生活中要面對的。
很多女人常說男人的話不能信，誰都能靠的住，就是男人靠不住之類的話，很可悲只能說你沒有遇到好男人，或者說，根本不了解男人。一個男人如果真的愛你的話，就一定會做出下面這些事：
一、願意為你掏錢
錢，在感情生活中不是最重要的，但是是必須的。一個男人如果是真的愛你的話，就不會為你去計算錢，只要你需要的合理，有能力支付，就一定不會不答應。因為在他心裡，連你都是他的了，為什麼還不能給你花錢？
二、願意聽你訴苦
女人常常會有很多的不開心事情 。在男人看來很多只是很小的事情，甚至不值得去在乎。一個愛你的男人，會希望了解到你在想什麼，會願意聽你的訴苦，聽完你很多的話後，再發表下評論，安慰下你。
三、願意為你讓自己受苦
年輕的男人，大多數是愛拼搏的，自己苦一點，累一點，沒有關係，經濟條件有限的人，會自己減少開支，來付出在感情上，有能力的人，則會在做每一件事的時候，都在考慮關於你的未來。自己吃飯的時候，會在想你有沒有吃，自己在娛樂的時候，總會想到要是能把你帶去就好了，自己在開心的時候，總會想到你這時候會是怎樣的心情，總之不管自己處於什麼狀態，都會想到你。
四、願意為你收場
兩個人在一起吃飯，常常女生最後都會說吃不下了，愛你的男人，會情願幫你的吃完剩下的。現在這個年齡的男人，大多數在家裡是被當著寶貝養大的，一直都是家人付出，自己享受，如果真的很愛一個人，他會放下自己，去為了愛的人。
五、在關鍵時候，總會護住你
兩個人一起逛街的時候，愛你的男人會走在靠馬路的一邊，而你則在靠馬路里面的一邊，這樣你會很安全。登山的時候，愛你的男人總會在你後面，可以保護著你向上爬。下雨的時候，總會把傘向你那邊多傾斜一點，即使自己淋濕了，也不想讓你受到一點點的雨淋。刮大風的時候，會緊緊抱住你，不讓你被風吹到…… 不管在什麼情況下，都願意盡量減少給你帶去的傷害。
一個好男人，是需要一個好女人好好把握的，也許你現在身邊的男人並不完美，並不是你一直所憧憬的那樣的王子般的男人，但是他只要是真心對你好的，你就應該去珍惜，一個女人對男人最大的珍惜，就是好好的去愛他，心裡只有他一個，願意和他一起去承受生活中要面對的。
4.15.2011
教你12招，保管男朋友跑不了！
1、 請記得，若是男人對不起你，請堅決與他分手。你還得記住，千萬不要發脾氣，要溫柔地分手。若發脾氣，你們分手的理由會定位於性格不合，若溫柔地分手，你們不過是無緣，不過是世間遺憾。親愛的，多給男人一點遺憾。對於遺憾，一直都是男人心中一道淒美的風景線。男人們大多不懂珍惜，信奉得不到的才是最美的，失去的總有詩意。讓他失去你，比你失去他要在心理上佔優勢。
2、不要試圖去征服一個30歲以上、從未結過婚、至今也沒有固定女友的男人。這種男人不是性無能就是愛無能，而且多數有性取向方面的心理暗疾。親愛的，別做一個受傷的女性。
3、看一個男人愛不愛你的最好方面，是看他是否把你帶入他的世界、他的生活當中。
4、收服男人就得對他好，俗話說，柔能克剛。但不要時時、事事都好，只要在他生病時照顧他就行了。記住，千萬不能………太慣男人了，不要讓他習以為常，以為這是你該做的、喜歡做的。
5、這世間有個詞叫神話，想知道什麼是神話？請聽男人向你表達愛意！這世間還有個詞叫傳說，想知道什麼是傳說？請聽男人對你的承諾！這世間的女人都有夢境，而夢境，就是女人接觸到神話和傳說時的反應。
6、作為女人其實應該相信男人。就像願意相信世界和平會到來，雖然你也知道，現在世界戰爭不斷。
7、每個女人，一生至少要傻一次。傻兩次及以上者，不是女人，是母豬，活該被騙被甩。若是已經上當的，就最好抱著“酒後失身，何必當真”的心態，這樣，雖然不能擁有愛情，但至少挽回了面子。
8、如果你給男友（老公）打電話遇到不回、關機等情況，完全沒有必要再打第二次，因為破壞人家的歡樂時光實在是件不好的事情，關鍵是讓你自己很沒面子。
9、千萬不要翻看男人的手機短信，不要查崗不要跟踪追擊，不要讓男人覺得你十分在乎他，要讓他在乎你關注你才對。
10、 千萬不要相信別人告訴你的關於男友（老公）的緋聞，除非當場抓住。如果你想繼續，就請你先一致對外，趕走外來侵犯者，最後再解決內部矛盾。家醜不可外揚， 男人也想保持唯一的一點面子。如果你覺得不可忍受，就想怎麼發洩就怎麼發洩，要讓這個惡劣的男人知道背叛女人後的悲慘下場。
11、千萬不要在出差時想給對方驚喜，不要搞突然襲擊，不要不打招呼地回來或去看望對方。我相信所有的女人都不願意看到一些讓自己後悔一生的場面。
12、 親愛的女士們，男人這種動物，很容易讓我們看走眼。開始時，你以為他是白馬王子，最後才發現是白眼蛤蟆。但這世上也有優秀的男人，他溫柔、善良、體貼、富有情趣，極有責任感，最好還能有些家產，但最最重要的是他愛你。這時候，記得一定要抓緊一切機會，想方設法嫁給你愛的這個他！女士們努力吧！十個男人七個傻，八個呆，九個壞，剩下的這個可是人人愛呀！
2、不要試圖去征服一個30歲以上、從未結過婚、至今也沒有固定女友的男人。這種男人不是性無能就是愛無能，而且多數有性取向方面的心理暗疾。親愛的，別做一個受傷的女性。
3、看一個男人愛不愛你的最好方面，是看他是否把你帶入他的世界、他的生活當中。
4、收服男人就得對他好，俗話說，柔能克剛。但不要時時、事事都好，只要在他生病時照顧他就行了。記住，千萬不能………太慣男人了，不要讓他習以為常，以為這是你該做的、喜歡做的。
5、這世間有個詞叫神話，想知道什麼是神話？請聽男人向你表達愛意！這世間還有個詞叫傳說，想知道什麼是傳說？請聽男人對你的承諾！這世間的女人都有夢境，而夢境，就是女人接觸到神話和傳說時的反應。
6、作為女人其實應該相信男人。就像願意相信世界和平會到來，雖然你也知道，現在世界戰爭不斷。
7、每個女人，一生至少要傻一次。傻兩次及以上者，不是女人，是母豬，活該被騙被甩。若是已經上當的，就最好抱著“酒後失身，何必當真”的心態，這樣，雖然不能擁有愛情，但至少挽回了面子。
8、如果你給男友（老公）打電話遇到不回、關機等情況，完全沒有必要再打第二次，因為破壞人家的歡樂時光實在是件不好的事情，關鍵是讓你自己很沒面子。
9、千萬不要翻看男人的手機短信，不要查崗不要跟踪追擊，不要讓男人覺得你十分在乎他，要讓他在乎你關注你才對。
10、 千萬不要相信別人告訴你的關於男友（老公）的緋聞，除非當場抓住。如果你想繼續，就請你先一致對外，趕走外來侵犯者，最後再解決內部矛盾。家醜不可外揚， 男人也想保持唯一的一點面子。如果你覺得不可忍受，就想怎麼發洩就怎麼發洩，要讓這個惡劣的男人知道背叛女人後的悲慘下場。
11、千萬不要在出差時想給對方驚喜，不要搞突然襲擊，不要不打招呼地回來或去看望對方。我相信所有的女人都不願意看到一些讓自己後悔一生的場面。
12、 親愛的女士們，男人這種動物，很容易讓我們看走眼。開始時，你以為他是白馬王子，最後才發現是白眼蛤蟆。但這世上也有優秀的男人，他溫柔、善良、體貼、富有情趣，極有責任感，最好還能有些家產，但最最重要的是他愛你。這時候，記得一定要抓緊一切機會，想方設法嫁給你愛的這個他！女士們努力吧！十個男人七個傻，八個呆，九個壞，剩下的這個可是人人愛呀！
3.03.2011
女孩必知的30条美容秘方
1.隔夜茶能增长睫毛
将喝剩的茶水晾凉，在睡前或隔天清晨，利用棉花棒沾湿眼睫毛，可达到增长睫毛的功效，赶快试试吧！保证是最价又经济的“睫毛增长液”，如将使用后的茶包，热热地敷在眼部，也能去掉黑眼圈！
2.变成俏臀佳人
想要让下垂的臀部恢复弹性吗？将海盐沐浴乳均匀涂抹到臀部，用手指夹住赘肉由下而上捏揉，来回20次之后用温水冲洗干净，经常这样做，效果会非常不错！
3.橡皮筋是剪指甲好帮手
剪指甲时指甲很容易掉满地，如果将一支牙签绕满橡皮筋塞入在指甲剪刀口内，指甲就会附着在橡皮筋上，不会掉得满地都是了。
4.鞋子保养有术
换季要将鞋子收藏一段时间不穿，先用鞋刷将鞋子刷干净，均匀多涂一些皮革保养油或鞋油，然后在鞋子内塞入报纸，装入鞋盒内再放入几包干燥剂，可以让心爱的鞋鞋免于变硬或发霉。
5.保养有术吹气球减肥法
说到减肥大家都知道最有效的方式就是持续的运动，不过大部份的美眉都懒得动，其实光是吹气球这样简单的动作也可以减肥！每天吹50个气球消耗的体脂肪跟跑步10分钟是一样的！很神奇吧，要减肥就每天试试看！
6.增胖的小秘方
太瘦想增胖？将牛奶与养乐多大约是3：2的比例混合，然后马上喝掉！记住，不要放置过久，否则会有发酵后的浓浓沉淀物，每天喝个几次，将会有意想不到的成功增胖体验！
7.不再有臭脚ㄚ
放学后或下班后脚丫臭死人吗？将已勾破不穿的丝袜，截取一段，内置入小苏打粉，可消除鞋中的异味，袜子和脚丫也不再会臭臭了啦﹗
8.除湿靠木炭
你的衣橱衣服摸起来常常觉得潮湿吗？妳可以用报纸把木炭包起来，放在衣橱里就可以当除湿机除湿使用了。
9.变成平腹美少女
别再为肚子那块令你伤心的赘肉怨叹了！赶紧将海盐沐浴乳涂抹在腹部用力推摩到发热，接着用保鲜膜包好，30分钟后用温水冲洗。经常如此做，史上最迷人的肚皮就会诞生了！
10.减肥妙招
先将一茶匙的绿茶粉用温水调匀，再倒入养乐多或优酪乳混合食用，尤其三餐饭后食用效果更佳，不但可养颜美容助消化，还可达到减肥的效果！
11.变成美腿美眉
将脚抬高，均匀涂抹海盐沐浴乳在腿肚上，双手握拳由脚跟往上揉搓，来回做20次，搓揉至发热后再用保鲜膜包起来，10分钟后再用温水冲洗干净，持之以恒，拥有一双美腿非梦事！
12.让小腿变瘦诀窍
别偷懒，在每晚睡觉前，将腿靠在墙壁30分钟，与身体成90度角，长期下来，保证你拥有一双美美的腿！
13.常吃山药有益肌肤
山药富含薯蓣皂(天然的DHEA)，内含有各种荷尔蒙基本物质，有促进内分泌荷尔蒙的合成作用，作用于皮肤时，能促进细胞的新陈代谢、提升肌肤保湿功能并改善体质。
14.樱桃美容法
名医别录记载：吃樱桃，令人好颜色，美志。樱桃的铁含量高，常吃可提高血红蛋白含量，让人面色红润；而胡萝卜素和维生素C有助皮肤美白细腻，让肌肤具有弹性。
15.瘀青不见了
跌倒后可能瘀青一大块，又难看又不好穿短裙，怎么办？你把鸡蛋煮熟拨壳后在瘀青上滚一滚，很快它就慢慢消失了，你可以试试。
16.粉笔让首饰宝光泽
你的珠宝首饰会“日久生变”黯然失色吗？别担心！只要在珠宝盒中放一截小小的粉笔，即可让首饰长保光泽。还等什么？赶快试试吧！
17.简单治疗青春痘
有青春痘困扰吗？到中药店去买决明子，在每天晚餐后泡来喝，隔日痘子就会消失，还可以让你的小腹平平,体重也减轻呢！
18.靴筒不变形的方法
靴子在换季收藏时，常会因为靴筒太长，底部不够支撑而倒下，使得第二年要穿的时候没有型。此时你可收集卷筒卫生纸中央的滚动条，可利用在短筒靴中，将其撑起。而长筒靴则可用厨房用长的纸巾的滚动条，会比较高！如此一来，次年你的靴子还是会一样帅气！
19.吐司去污垢法
衣领与袖口堆积顽垢让你穿后见不得人？外套只要是每天穿，就容易在衣领与袖口堆积顽垢，这时可利用切得较厚的吐司面包用力摩擦，即可去除。
20.刮胡刀去毛球
烦恼穿久了的毛衣出现了令人讨厌的毛球吗？只要利用一般的刮胡刀，即可将毛衣上的毛球去除，而且刮胡刀还并不会刮伤毛衣！
21.过期乳液鲜奶油擦鞋亮如新
过期的乳液或鲜奶油有什么用处呢，丢了可惜，又不敢再拿来用，其实用来当鞋油擦鞋子可是有不错的效果喔！穿了好几年的鞋子擦过后还是能一样亮丽如新呢！
22.消除屁股疼痛妙招
许多上班族或学生族在坐了一整天后，总会感觉屁股疼痛坐立难安，其实只要用脚掌把高根鞋反过来踩就可以改善，或是踩着饮料空罐，因为这样可以减少静脉阻塞，让血液循环顺畅，工作或学习起来也就更得心应手！
23.洗发精用处多
不喜欢的洗发精别丢掉，因为它和衣领清洁剂功效差不多。洗也洗不干净的白袜子，不妨也交给洗发精。如果发质是油性,洗枕头套时,可加入一些洗发精,效果更好。
24.有助玉手恢复柔润
做家务事或洗碗碟而致双手泛红且皱纹满布，可取精盐3茶匙溶入一盆温水当中，浸泡双手约5分钟，有助玉手恢复细白柔润；如要消除脚部疲劳，将脚泡在温的盐水中数分钟，再用冷水冲净即可。
25.去除老化的皮肤
洗完澡后身体仍湿答答时，用适量的盐在老化的皮肤上摩擦，可除去已死的角质皮肤(但注意只要轻轻擦即可，否则会伤害到肌肤)，且有助血液循环。
26.自制唇蜜的方法
材料：口红(不要的，剩余的，现有的)、酒精灯(或吹风机)、调棒、铁汤匙、护唇膏(或唇油、凡士林)。
做法：
1.先将口红及唇膏利用调棒取出至汤匙上；
2.将汤匙放在酒精灯上或以吹风机吹热风加热，并利用调棒搅均匀，记住不要加热过久；
3.趁热将液状唇膏倒入容器中，等其放凉凝固即可。
27.铺丝巾让头发不变形
每个美眉可能都有这种烦恼，好不容易到美容院做好发型后经过一觉醒来，头发就变形了！其实，这种情形是可预防的，只要睡前在枕头上铺一条质地光滑的丝巾，如此一来，既不会弄乱头发，又可保持美丽的发型！
28.柠檬浴使皮肤更白皙
柠檬正值生产期时，价格不贵，不妨常选购，平日将它切半挤成汁，再加冷开水和加些糖饮用！但挤过的柠檬皮暂勿丢弃，放在盥洗室的水中，无论洗脸沐浴都让肌肤更幼嫩白皙呢！
29.解决生理痛小秘方
将当归约3至4片，加红枣和红糖，再以适量的水煮约30分钟后，喝了不但可以解决生理痛，还可以帮助经血排得更干净！
30.快速消除黑眼圈
起床后洗个脸，用双手帮双眼作顺时针方向打圈按摩，约5分钟，可促进眼下的血液循环，黑眼圈瞬间可以变红润。
有时美容可以是件不昂贵的事情，它的成本可能降到最低，就比如我们平时吃的普通细盐，它就是上前很流行的一种美容妙方，下面我推荐几种盐美容方法：
一、盐亮肤
洗脸后，把一小勺细盐放在手掌心加水3-5滴，再用手指仔细将盐和水搅拌均匀，然后沾着盐水从额部自上而下的搽抹，边搽边做环开按摩。几分钟后，待脸上的盐水干透呈白粉时状时，用温水将脸洗净，涂上保湿乳液或继续正常的护肤步骤。持续进行，每天早晚洗脸后各一次。
这样有很好的清洁和去污效果，对于毛孔中积聚的油脂、粉刺、甚至是“黑头”都可以去掉。不过按摩时应该避开眼部周围的皮肤，而且敏感性皮肤谨慎些。千万不要把盐水弄到眼睛里去，以免造成眼结膜损伤。
二、盐明目
做完正常的清洁后，打半盆温清水，撒上少量盐让它融化，将脸部浸泡在淡盐水中，在水中睁开眼睛，上下左右活动眼球达到用淡水洗眼的效果。
不出二个星期，你会发现你的眼睛变得明亮且炯炯有神起来，这才是名副其实的“电眼美女”。
三、盐战痘
其实对于背部长有青春痘的“顽疾”，盐一样也有用。入浴后让身体充分温热，待毛孔张开后多抹些盐在后背，各个角落都要抹到。用浴刷按摩1分钟，不要太用力，只要让皮肤及刷子间的盐分移动即可，然后用海绵蘸上淡盐水，贴在背上10分钟，用清水洗干净。
洗几次再看看，背上的痘痘慢慢地被攻克了。
四、盐控油
对于分泌油脂旺盛的T字部位，即使到了秋天，很多油性皮肤的“产油量”还是源源不断的。对于局部区域，可以用细盐抹在事先润湿的皮肤上，轻轻按摩后休息3分钟，然后在鼻翼两侧毛孔张开的部位用中指指腹由下向上做挤压式按摩。
“油量”真的会随着你的坚持而减产哦。
将喝剩的茶水晾凉，在睡前或隔天清晨，利用棉花棒沾湿眼睫毛，可达到增长睫毛的功效，赶快试试吧！保证是最价又经济的“睫毛增长液”，如将使用后的茶包，热热地敷在眼部，也能去掉黑眼圈！
2.变成俏臀佳人
想要让下垂的臀部恢复弹性吗？将海盐沐浴乳均匀涂抹到臀部，用手指夹住赘肉由下而上捏揉，来回20次之后用温水冲洗干净，经常这样做，效果会非常不错！
3.橡皮筋是剪指甲好帮手
剪指甲时指甲很容易掉满地，如果将一支牙签绕满橡皮筋塞入在指甲剪刀口内，指甲就会附着在橡皮筋上，不会掉得满地都是了。
4.鞋子保养有术
换季要将鞋子收藏一段时间不穿，先用鞋刷将鞋子刷干净，均匀多涂一些皮革保养油或鞋油，然后在鞋子内塞入报纸，装入鞋盒内再放入几包干燥剂，可以让心爱的鞋鞋免于变硬或发霉。
5.保养有术吹气球减肥法
说到减肥大家都知道最有效的方式就是持续的运动，不过大部份的美眉都懒得动，其实光是吹气球这样简单的动作也可以减肥！每天吹50个气球消耗的体脂肪跟跑步10分钟是一样的！很神奇吧，要减肥就每天试试看！
6.增胖的小秘方
太瘦想增胖？将牛奶与养乐多大约是3：2的比例混合，然后马上喝掉！记住，不要放置过久，否则会有发酵后的浓浓沉淀物，每天喝个几次，将会有意想不到的成功增胖体验！
7.不再有臭脚ㄚ
放学后或下班后脚丫臭死人吗？将已勾破不穿的丝袜，截取一段，内置入小苏打粉，可消除鞋中的异味，袜子和脚丫也不再会臭臭了啦﹗
8.除湿靠木炭
你的衣橱衣服摸起来常常觉得潮湿吗？妳可以用报纸把木炭包起来，放在衣橱里就可以当除湿机除湿使用了。
9.变成平腹美少女
别再为肚子那块令你伤心的赘肉怨叹了！赶紧将海盐沐浴乳涂抹在腹部用力推摩到发热，接着用保鲜膜包好，30分钟后用温水冲洗。经常如此做，史上最迷人的肚皮就会诞生了！
10.减肥妙招
先将一茶匙的绿茶粉用温水调匀，再倒入养乐多或优酪乳混合食用，尤其三餐饭后食用效果更佳，不但可养颜美容助消化，还可达到减肥的效果！
11.变成美腿美眉
将脚抬高，均匀涂抹海盐沐浴乳在腿肚上，双手握拳由脚跟往上揉搓，来回做20次，搓揉至发热后再用保鲜膜包起来，10分钟后再用温水冲洗干净，持之以恒，拥有一双美腿非梦事！
12.让小腿变瘦诀窍
别偷懒，在每晚睡觉前，将腿靠在墙壁30分钟，与身体成90度角，长期下来，保证你拥有一双美美的腿！
13.常吃山药有益肌肤
山药富含薯蓣皂(天然的DHEA)，内含有各种荷尔蒙基本物质，有促进内分泌荷尔蒙的合成作用，作用于皮肤时，能促进细胞的新陈代谢、提升肌肤保湿功能并改善体质。
14.樱桃美容法
名医别录记载：吃樱桃，令人好颜色，美志。樱桃的铁含量高，常吃可提高血红蛋白含量，让人面色红润；而胡萝卜素和维生素C有助皮肤美白细腻，让肌肤具有弹性。
15.瘀青不见了
跌倒后可能瘀青一大块，又难看又不好穿短裙，怎么办？你把鸡蛋煮熟拨壳后在瘀青上滚一滚，很快它就慢慢消失了，你可以试试。
16.粉笔让首饰宝光泽
你的珠宝首饰会“日久生变”黯然失色吗？别担心！只要在珠宝盒中放一截小小的粉笔，即可让首饰长保光泽。还等什么？赶快试试吧！
17.简单治疗青春痘
有青春痘困扰吗？到中药店去买决明子，在每天晚餐后泡来喝，隔日痘子就会消失，还可以让你的小腹平平,体重也减轻呢！
18.靴筒不变形的方法
靴子在换季收藏时，常会因为靴筒太长，底部不够支撑而倒下，使得第二年要穿的时候没有型。此时你可收集卷筒卫生纸中央的滚动条，可利用在短筒靴中，将其撑起。而长筒靴则可用厨房用长的纸巾的滚动条，会比较高！如此一来，次年你的靴子还是会一样帅气！
19.吐司去污垢法
衣领与袖口堆积顽垢让你穿后见不得人？外套只要是每天穿，就容易在衣领与袖口堆积顽垢，这时可利用切得较厚的吐司面包用力摩擦，即可去除。
20.刮胡刀去毛球
烦恼穿久了的毛衣出现了令人讨厌的毛球吗？只要利用一般的刮胡刀，即可将毛衣上的毛球去除，而且刮胡刀还并不会刮伤毛衣！
21.过期乳液鲜奶油擦鞋亮如新
过期的乳液或鲜奶油有什么用处呢，丢了可惜，又不敢再拿来用，其实用来当鞋油擦鞋子可是有不错的效果喔！穿了好几年的鞋子擦过后还是能一样亮丽如新呢！
22.消除屁股疼痛妙招
许多上班族或学生族在坐了一整天后，总会感觉屁股疼痛坐立难安，其实只要用脚掌把高根鞋反过来踩就可以改善，或是踩着饮料空罐，因为这样可以减少静脉阻塞，让血液循环顺畅，工作或学习起来也就更得心应手！
23.洗发精用处多
不喜欢的洗发精别丢掉，因为它和衣领清洁剂功效差不多。洗也洗不干净的白袜子，不妨也交给洗发精。如果发质是油性,洗枕头套时,可加入一些洗发精,效果更好。
24.有助玉手恢复柔润
做家务事或洗碗碟而致双手泛红且皱纹满布，可取精盐3茶匙溶入一盆温水当中，浸泡双手约5分钟，有助玉手恢复细白柔润；如要消除脚部疲劳，将脚泡在温的盐水中数分钟，再用冷水冲净即可。
25.去除老化的皮肤
洗完澡后身体仍湿答答时，用适量的盐在老化的皮肤上摩擦，可除去已死的角质皮肤(但注意只要轻轻擦即可，否则会伤害到肌肤)，且有助血液循环。
26.自制唇蜜的方法
材料：口红(不要的，剩余的，现有的)、酒精灯(或吹风机)、调棒、铁汤匙、护唇膏(或唇油、凡士林)。
做法：
1.先将口红及唇膏利用调棒取出至汤匙上；
2.将汤匙放在酒精灯上或以吹风机吹热风加热，并利用调棒搅均匀，记住不要加热过久；
3.趁热将液状唇膏倒入容器中，等其放凉凝固即可。
27.铺丝巾让头发不变形
每个美眉可能都有这种烦恼，好不容易到美容院做好发型后经过一觉醒来，头发就变形了！其实，这种情形是可预防的，只要睡前在枕头上铺一条质地光滑的丝巾，如此一来，既不会弄乱头发，又可保持美丽的发型！
28.柠檬浴使皮肤更白皙
柠檬正值生产期时，价格不贵，不妨常选购，平日将它切半挤成汁，再加冷开水和加些糖饮用！但挤过的柠檬皮暂勿丢弃，放在盥洗室的水中，无论洗脸沐浴都让肌肤更幼嫩白皙呢！
29.解决生理痛小秘方
将当归约3至4片，加红枣和红糖，再以适量的水煮约30分钟后，喝了不但可以解决生理痛，还可以帮助经血排得更干净！
30.快速消除黑眼圈
起床后洗个脸，用双手帮双眼作顺时针方向打圈按摩，约5分钟，可促进眼下的血液循环，黑眼圈瞬间可以变红润。
有时美容可以是件不昂贵的事情，它的成本可能降到最低，就比如我们平时吃的普通细盐，它就是上前很流行的一种美容妙方，下面我推荐几种盐美容方法：
一、盐亮肤
洗脸后，把一小勺细盐放在手掌心加水3-5滴，再用手指仔细将盐和水搅拌均匀，然后沾着盐水从额部自上而下的搽抹，边搽边做环开按摩。几分钟后，待脸上的盐水干透呈白粉时状时，用温水将脸洗净，涂上保湿乳液或继续正常的护肤步骤。持续进行，每天早晚洗脸后各一次。
这样有很好的清洁和去污效果，对于毛孔中积聚的油脂、粉刺、甚至是“黑头”都可以去掉。不过按摩时应该避开眼部周围的皮肤，而且敏感性皮肤谨慎些。千万不要把盐水弄到眼睛里去，以免造成眼结膜损伤。
二、盐明目
做完正常的清洁后，打半盆温清水，撒上少量盐让它融化，将脸部浸泡在淡盐水中，在水中睁开眼睛，上下左右活动眼球达到用淡水洗眼的效果。
不出二个星期，你会发现你的眼睛变得明亮且炯炯有神起来，这才是名副其实的“电眼美女”。
三、盐战痘
其实对于背部长有青春痘的“顽疾”，盐一样也有用。入浴后让身体充分温热，待毛孔张开后多抹些盐在后背，各个角落都要抹到。用浴刷按摩1分钟，不要太用力，只要让皮肤及刷子间的盐分移动即可，然后用海绵蘸上淡盐水，贴在背上10分钟，用清水洗干净。
洗几次再看看，背上的痘痘慢慢地被攻克了。
四、盐控油
对于分泌油脂旺盛的T字部位，即使到了秋天，很多油性皮肤的“产油量”还是源源不断的。对于局部区域，可以用细盐抹在事先润湿的皮肤上，轻轻按摩后休息3分钟，然后在鼻翼两侧毛孔张开的部位用中指指腹由下向上做挤压式按摩。
“油量”真的会随着你的坚持而减产哦。
2.02.2011
I'm very Taurus
Among the twelve zodiac signs, Taurus is the second sign, ruled by Venus, with Earth as its basic element. This zodiac sign is symbolized by ‘The Bull’. People born between April 21st and May 21st belong to this sun sign. Taureans can be described as dependable, compassionate, reliable, loyal and physically and emotionally strong. Let’s understand in detail about personality traits of Taurus women.
Personality Traits of Taurus Women
A typical Taurean woman can be described as loving, reliable, artistic, attentive, gentle, calm and patient. She is introvert and deeply sensual, with considerable moral and emotional courage. She has a practical approach. She is loyal to her friends and stands by them in any situation.
Physical Appearance
Being ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, a Taurean woman is blessed with a charming and fascinating personality. Due to her magnetic personality, she becomes center of attraction in any party or event. Taurean woman typically has a rounded body with a thick neck and a broad forehead. She has a beautiful complexion, bright eyes, dark hair, broad shoulders and well-developed muscles. She has a nice, friendly way of communication. Taurean women are very careful about their appearance and need to have a strict diet to attain slimness. They are very careful about their appearance, be it hairstyle, beauty treatments or wearing attractive clothes.
General Nature
Taurean woman is generally very calm by nature. She is able to put up with lot of stress. She has a strong willpower with moral and emotional courage. She is capable of handling any serious problems. She is really dependable and faithful. She has got lots of patience. She is able to withstand great hardship.
Health
Taurean women generally enjoy good health. They are less sensitive to pains. But when they fall ill, the recovery is slow, because they are not cooperative to the doctor due to their stubborn nature. They can suffer from the diseases of throat and lower abdomen such as throat infection, diphtheria, tonsils, colds, constipation, etc. They may also suffer from sore eyes and pimples. For maintaining good health, they need to avoid cold stuffs and increase an intake of green vegetables.
Career
A career that requires social interaction is most suitable for the Taurean women. Since Taurean women lack in originality, they are not able to initiate great plans. They can follow the ideas of others. Due to great organization skills, Taurean women can effectively work in the world of politics and finance. They can be excellent artists, photographers and gardeners.
Love, Romance and Relationship
Taurean women are very romantic when in love and develop a strong emotional bond. Taurean woman can be a loving, caring, romantic partner. But, jealousy can be a severe problem in their relationships. Taurean women are most compatible with the people who belong to signs Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn and Pisces.
Marriage
Generally, Taurean woman takes a long time to select her life partner. Once married, she proves to be a devoted, ideal wife. She is really careful about her husband and children. She is a good homemaker and cook.
Negative Traits
Taurean women are too possessive about their belongings. They are too lazy and have a tendency to live life the easy way. They are somewhat stubborn and lose some good opportunities due to this nature. Being fond of food, they have a tendency to gain weight.
In a nutshell, beautiful, loyal, romantic Taurean women are an ideal friend, romantic lover and caring mother. Their dynamic, pleasant existence can brighten your life.
By Reshma Jirage
Personality Traits of Taurus Women
A typical Taurean woman can be described as loving, reliable, artistic, attentive, gentle, calm and patient. She is introvert and deeply sensual, with considerable moral and emotional courage. She has a practical approach. She is loyal to her friends and stands by them in any situation.
Physical Appearance
Being ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, a Taurean woman is blessed with a charming and fascinating personality. Due to her magnetic personality, she becomes center of attraction in any party or event. Taurean woman typically has a rounded body with a thick neck and a broad forehead. She has a beautiful complexion, bright eyes, dark hair, broad shoulders and well-developed muscles. She has a nice, friendly way of communication. Taurean women are very careful about their appearance and need to have a strict diet to attain slimness. They are very careful about their appearance, be it hairstyle, beauty treatments or wearing attractive clothes.
General Nature
Taurean woman is generally very calm by nature. She is able to put up with lot of stress. She has a strong willpower with moral and emotional courage. She is capable of handling any serious problems. She is really dependable and faithful. She has got lots of patience. She is able to withstand great hardship.
Health
Taurean women generally enjoy good health. They are less sensitive to pains. But when they fall ill, the recovery is slow, because they are not cooperative to the doctor due to their stubborn nature. They can suffer from the diseases of throat and lower abdomen such as throat infection, diphtheria, tonsils, colds, constipation, etc. They may also suffer from sore eyes and pimples. For maintaining good health, they need to avoid cold stuffs and increase an intake of green vegetables.
Career
A career that requires social interaction is most suitable for the Taurean women. Since Taurean women lack in originality, they are not able to initiate great plans. They can follow the ideas of others. Due to great organization skills, Taurean women can effectively work in the world of politics and finance. They can be excellent artists, photographers and gardeners.
Love, Romance and Relationship
Taurean women are very romantic when in love and develop a strong emotional bond. Taurean woman can be a loving, caring, romantic partner. But, jealousy can be a severe problem in their relationships. Taurean women are most compatible with the people who belong to signs Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn and Pisces.
Marriage
Generally, Taurean woman takes a long time to select her life partner. Once married, she proves to be a devoted, ideal wife. She is really careful about her husband and children. She is a good homemaker and cook.
Negative Traits
Taurean women are too possessive about their belongings. They are too lazy and have a tendency to live life the easy way. They are somewhat stubborn and lose some good opportunities due to this nature. Being fond of food, they have a tendency to gain weight.
In a nutshell, beautiful, loyal, romantic Taurean women are an ideal friend, romantic lover and caring mother. Their dynamic, pleasant existence can brighten your life.
By Reshma Jirage
1.31.2011
Little discovery on FB
"I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." -- Marilyn Monroe
"Beauty only gets attention, but Personality captures the heart."
"Beauty only gets attention, but Personality captures the heart."
1.30.2011
Worrying...
有一种感觉： 就算我赚了钱，过得好一点了，也回不到以前了。。。我的家到底在我不在的这段期间，发生了什么事。。。小瓜们都长大了，家里却变成一盘散沙。。。有的之前闹离婚，有的结婚却结到莫名其妙。。之类的。。。 看到我姐做工赚钱，然后就时常不见人，爸妈也管不了那么多，我看我就别赚钱好了，至少还有话题跟家人聊（开玩笑的）。。。但是笑不出来。 我可以做些什么吗？如果我连现在的家都保护不了，怎么有办法拥有我未来自己的家？
1.29.2011
Taurus Girl, just so exact!
金牛女
美食美男主义。旅行冲动症（行动力跟得上意愿），性格呈半打开半封闭状态，除了自己感情其他都能侃侃而谈，思想开放，不愿受束缚。会有疯狂想法，但行为都 较理智妥当，分得清轻重是非。有隐藏的固执和脾气。小疯婆子（还是小loli呢，一开始真没想到是金牛的），任性倔强，疯玩起来满地打滚，什么都表现得不 在乎，但关上门就写起了小日记，并在首页写着“偷窥者烂**（就是菊花，囧）！除了姐姐和￥￥！（￥￥是她家狗的名字）”。平时说话直接并且伤人，自尊心 很强。
有头脑有毅力，有品味有矜持，不轻易交心。
小结：金牛女大都善于隐藏细腻的情感，表露的性格特征趋向硬朗坚强，通往她内心的通道由狭窄到宽阔再到狭窄。她们的生活理念通常很实际，知道什么时候适合 做小女人什么时候该拿大主意，比较让男人放心。对于认定的事情普遍倔强固执己见，接受新奇刺激也回归现实。
美食美男主义。旅行冲动症（行动力跟得上意愿），性格呈半打开半封闭状态，除了自己感情其他都能侃侃而谈，思想开放，不愿受束缚。会有疯狂想法，但行为都 较理智妥当，分得清轻重是非。有隐藏的固执和脾气。小疯婆子（还是小loli呢，一开始真没想到是金牛的），任性倔强，疯玩起来满地打滚，什么都表现得不 在乎，但关上门就写起了小日记，并在首页写着“偷窥者烂**（就是菊花，囧）！除了姐姐和￥￥！（￥￥是她家狗的名字）”。平时说话直接并且伤人，自尊心 很强。
有头脑有毅力，有品味有矜持，不轻易交心。
小结：金牛女大都善于隐藏细腻的情感，表露的性格特征趋向硬朗坚强，通往她内心的通道由狭窄到宽阔再到狭窄。她们的生活理念通常很实际，知道什么时候适合 做小女人什么时候该拿大主意，比较让男人放心。对于认定的事情普遍倔强固执己见，接受新奇刺激也回归现实。
1.28.2011
Angry TV Buyer
Original ad:
i want a flatscreen tv. at least 40 inches and under $500. hit me up if you got what i want
From Me to ***********@**********.org:
Hey,
I am selling my 42" Westinghouse plasma TV for $400. It is in excellent condition. I'm just selling it because I got a bigger one and don't need this one anymore. Let me know if you are interested.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
yeah man thats perfect. ill buy that as soon as possible. would you be able to bring it to my house? i dont have a car. im home pretty much all day every day
you can call me if you want 610-***-****
From me to jim ******:
No problem, Jim. I could bring it by tomorrow after work. Are you sure you want to buy it though? I don't want to bring it there and have you decide you don't want to buy it.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
no i definitely want it. just bring it over man
my address is 415 ********* rd, ******, PA
just call me if you have any trouble
From me to jim ******:
Okay, I'll be over tomorrow.
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
I'm very sorry I was unable to make it to your house today. I had the TV loaded in the back of my pickup truck, and I was all set to go to your house. I just decided to make a quick stop in Chester to buy some stuff from a friend, and when I got back to my truck, the TV was gone. I can't figure out what the hell happened to it. I'm thinking maybe I hit a bump and it slid out of the truck, because I do forget to close my tailgate sometimes. I don't really remember if it was in the truck when I parked it, so I am baffled.
Anyway, this is totally my fault. Seeing as how I promised you a TV and lost it, I am going to help you out. I signed you up for a 2 year subscription to Plasma TV Enthusiasts Weekly. It is an excellent magazine that will give you a lot of information on plasma TVs to help you make the right decision when buying one. It is normally $84.99 a year, but I hooked you up with my referrer discount so it will only cost you $63.50 a year. I had it sent and billed to the address you gave me, and you should get your first one in a week or two.
Once again, I am very sorry that I lost the TV that I was going to sell you, but hopefully this magazine can help you out.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
are you out of your fuckin mind i dont want any fuckin magazines!!! what the fuck.. you better fuckin cancel that shit. what the fuck were you thinking dude, im not paying for that you fuckin dumbass
From jim ****** to Me:
and its obvious YOUR TV WAS STOLEN YOU FUCKIN RETARD. why the FUCK would you leave a tv in the back of your truck in chester?
cancel the fuckin magazines..NOW.
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
Why do you want me to cancel the magazines? It is a great magazine and I got you a great deal for it. You won't find it cheaper anywhere else. Also, to put it frankly, if you were going to buy a Westinghouse plasma TV from me without even looking at it, then it is clear you still have a lot to learn about plasma TVs. Reading this magazine will make you an expert in no time.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
you fuckin asshole i dont want to pay for some stupid magazine! i just want a goddamn tv. who the fuck would want to read a fuckin weekly magazine about tvs?! cancel it right now. im serious
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
I'm sorry you feel that way about the magazine. I was just trying to help. Unfortunately I cannot cancel the magazine. When I signed you up on the phone, they gave me a confirmation number I could use to cancel the subscription. I couldn't find a piece of paper to write it on, so I wrote the number on a napkin. I think I accidentally used the napkin to wipe my face after eating wings last night, and then threw it out. I'd look through the trash to find it for you, but the garbage truck already picked it up this morning. I think they take it to the dump/recycling center in Media if you want to go look for it. It was a napkin from Taco Bell, if that helps. I usually get all my napkins there.
If you think it would be easier, you could just cancel it once you get your first magazine in the mail. You'll probably be billed for the first month, plus a $75 cancellation fee because I didn't sign you up for cancellation insurance. I just assumed you would want to keep the magazine.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
i cant believe i just read all that shit because i should have known from the first few lines that you were a fuckin idiot
i dont care if you have to blow the fuckin editor, you better find a way to get it cancelled because i am not spending a goddamn nickel on that magazine!
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
If you don't pay for it, that may screw up your credit. I remember one time I forgot to pay my TV guide subscription for about 14 months, and that really messed up my credit. I had trouble buying a house because of that. You should be careful.
Since you seem to not know a lot about the importance of your credit, I signed you up for a year subscription of In Debt Weekly, a great magazine that can teach you a lot about credit. Don't worry, I got you the same discount as before, and this magazine is actually a little bit cheaper. It is only $34.99 a year. It came with a discounted subscription to Card Times, another magazine about credit cards. That one is only $25 per year, so I signed you up for that as well. It is a decent magazine for the price.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
GL4KJHSGSKFKJS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE STOP SIGNING ME UP FOR FUCKING MAGAZINES!!!!
CANCEL THOSE RIGHT NOW MOTHERFUCKER!!!!
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
There is no need for that kind of language. Please do not talk to me anymore.
Unless you would be interested in a subscription to Anger Management Journal. I can sign you up for that if you want to learn how to control your temper.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
FUCK YOU
http://www.dontevenreply.com/index.php
i want a flatscreen tv. at least 40 inches and under $500. hit me up if you got what i want
From Me to ***********@**********.org:
Hey,
I am selling my 42" Westinghouse plasma TV for $400. It is in excellent condition. I'm just selling it because I got a bigger one and don't need this one anymore. Let me know if you are interested.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
yeah man thats perfect. ill buy that as soon as possible. would you be able to bring it to my house? i dont have a car. im home pretty much all day every day
you can call me if you want 610-***-****
From me to jim ******:
No problem, Jim. I could bring it by tomorrow after work. Are you sure you want to buy it though? I don't want to bring it there and have you decide you don't want to buy it.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
no i definitely want it. just bring it over man
my address is 415 ********* rd, ******, PA
just call me if you have any trouble
From me to jim ******:
Okay, I'll be over tomorrow.
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
I'm very sorry I was unable to make it to your house today. I had the TV loaded in the back of my pickup truck, and I was all set to go to your house. I just decided to make a quick stop in Chester to buy some stuff from a friend, and when I got back to my truck, the TV was gone. I can't figure out what the hell happened to it. I'm thinking maybe I hit a bump and it slid out of the truck, because I do forget to close my tailgate sometimes. I don't really remember if it was in the truck when I parked it, so I am baffled.
Anyway, this is totally my fault. Seeing as how I promised you a TV and lost it, I am going to help you out. I signed you up for a 2 year subscription to Plasma TV Enthusiasts Weekly. It is an excellent magazine that will give you a lot of information on plasma TVs to help you make the right decision when buying one. It is normally $84.99 a year, but I hooked you up with my referrer discount so it will only cost you $63.50 a year. I had it sent and billed to the address you gave me, and you should get your first one in a week or two.
Once again, I am very sorry that I lost the TV that I was going to sell you, but hopefully this magazine can help you out.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
are you out of your fuckin mind i dont want any fuckin magazines!!! what the fuck.. you better fuckin cancel that shit. what the fuck were you thinking dude, im not paying for that you fuckin dumbass
From jim ****** to Me:
and its obvious YOUR TV WAS STOLEN YOU FUCKIN RETARD. why the FUCK would you leave a tv in the back of your truck in chester?
cancel the fuckin magazines..NOW.
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
Why do you want me to cancel the magazines? It is a great magazine and I got you a great deal for it. You won't find it cheaper anywhere else. Also, to put it frankly, if you were going to buy a Westinghouse plasma TV from me without even looking at it, then it is clear you still have a lot to learn about plasma TVs. Reading this magazine will make you an expert in no time.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
you fuckin asshole i dont want to pay for some stupid magazine! i just want a goddamn tv. who the fuck would want to read a fuckin weekly magazine about tvs?! cancel it right now. im serious
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
I'm sorry you feel that way about the magazine. I was just trying to help. Unfortunately I cannot cancel the magazine. When I signed you up on the phone, they gave me a confirmation number I could use to cancel the subscription. I couldn't find a piece of paper to write it on, so I wrote the number on a napkin. I think I accidentally used the napkin to wipe my face after eating wings last night, and then threw it out. I'd look through the trash to find it for you, but the garbage truck already picked it up this morning. I think they take it to the dump/recycling center in Media if you want to go look for it. It was a napkin from Taco Bell, if that helps. I usually get all my napkins there.
If you think it would be easier, you could just cancel it once you get your first magazine in the mail. You'll probably be billed for the first month, plus a $75 cancellation fee because I didn't sign you up for cancellation insurance. I just assumed you would want to keep the magazine.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
i cant believe i just read all that shit because i should have known from the first few lines that you were a fuckin idiot
i dont care if you have to blow the fuckin editor, you better find a way to get it cancelled because i am not spending a goddamn nickel on that magazine!
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
If you don't pay for it, that may screw up your credit. I remember one time I forgot to pay my TV guide subscription for about 14 months, and that really messed up my credit. I had trouble buying a house because of that. You should be careful.
Since you seem to not know a lot about the importance of your credit, I signed you up for a year subscription of In Debt Weekly, a great magazine that can teach you a lot about credit. Don't worry, I got you the same discount as before, and this magazine is actually a little bit cheaper. It is only $34.99 a year. It came with a discounted subscription to Card Times, another magazine about credit cards. That one is only $25 per year, so I signed you up for that as well. It is a decent magazine for the price.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
GL4KJHSGSKFKJS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE STOP SIGNING ME UP FOR FUCKING MAGAZINES!!!!
CANCEL THOSE RIGHT NOW MOTHERFUCKER!!!!
From me to jim ******:
Jim,
There is no need for that kind of language. Please do not talk to me anymore.
Unless you would be interested in a subscription to Anger Management Journal. I can sign you up for that if you want to learn how to control your temper.
Mike
From jim ****** to Me:
FUCK YOU
http://www.dontevenreply.com/index.php
1.21.2011
So touched...
Look your eyes and tell you what I want...
Trust me...never let you wipe your tears...
Cause you will not have tears with me...
If someone says these to me one day, definitely I must just get melted at once or probably the anorexia would come to me again.
I wanna try this eyeliner!! ( To tell the truth, I was searching the ' tears ' pictures for blogging and I found this picture and thought maybe I can learn how to draw like it. hehe )
1.15.2011
Down down down
I am down tonight, pretty down...
I will never be down while friend around but always be down while alone.
I was thinking about to go out tomorrow, but I have no idea who can I ask to be with. Then I decided to stay in room whole day.
I tried to talk to others on internet, and thought that'd make me feel better a bit, obviously that didn't work.
They asked why I am sad, and I answered, then I became more sad...
I am lazy and tired. The tiredness is not from body but my mind.
Just... tired...
I will never be down while friend around but always be down while alone.
I was thinking about to go out tomorrow, but I have no idea who can I ask to be with. Then I decided to stay in room whole day.
I tried to talk to others on internet, and thought that'd make me feel better a bit, obviously that didn't work.
They asked why I am sad, and I answered, then I became more sad...
I am lazy and tired. The tiredness is not from body but my mind.
Just... tired...
1.08.2011
The Urban Jungle Workout
This workout, designed by Urban Jungle, a bootcamp program based in New York City, can be done anywhere -- at home, at the park or in a hotel room. By using your own body weight as resistance and allowing only 30 seconds of rest between each exercise, you'll get your heart rate up and tone your body all in 30 minutes. You could even squeeze it in while the kids are taking a nap.
For best results, perform this routine three times a week for three weeks, making sure to increase intensity (the number of reps in each one-minute timeframe) each week. Two days a week, you will need to put in 30 minutes of cardio or yoga. After a couple of weeks, you should start feeling stronger, have more energy and notice your clothes feeling looser.
HOW IT WORKS
Here's an overview of the 30-minute routine, and click ahead for descriptions of each exercise.
1. Warm up for eight minutes. You can do whatever you like to get your heart rate up. Do some jumping jacks, jog in place or dance to your favorite song.
2. Do one minute of jungle squats. (Lower body)
3. Do one minute of push ups. (Upper body)
4. Do one minute of reverse V lunges. (Lower body)
5. Do one minute of modified chair dips. (Upper body)
6. Do two minutes of cardio. (Whole body)
7. Do one minute of abs exercises. (Whole body)
8. Take a 30 second break.
Repeat steps 2 through 8, three times.
JUNGLE SQUAT: TONE YOUR THIGHES AND BUTT
What you're working: Quads, glutes, hamstrings and calves, while your core muscles keep you stable with correct form.
How to do it: Start out in a basic squat position, making sure your knees are not extending beyond your toes and with weight distributed evenly on your heels. Pivot to the right 90 degrees on left foot while maintaining the squat position. Pivot back to starting point, staying in squat position and then pivot to the left 90 degrees on right foot. Pivot back to starting point and come out of squat position. While standing up, do not lock your knees. This is one Jungle Squat; repeat for one minute.
Tip: Be sure to keep core engaged and back straight the whole time.
PUSH UP: TONE YOUR ARMS
What you’re working: Pectorals, deltoids, triceps and traps, while core keeps you stable with correct form.
How to do it: This is a modified pushup, but you can’t cheat and use your knees! Try it on the floor first, starting in plank position and lowering yourself down. Be sure to keep the lower body in alignment with upper body, being careful not to arch your back either way. Lower your body to about fist height off floor and then push yourself back up to plank position. Quality over quantity is the name of this game. Continue for one minute.
Tip: For a modification, do an elevated push up using either a chair, bed, bench, bar or other object that will hold your weight and not cause you to fall. Use the same form you would use on the floor, maintaining that good body position.
REVERSE V LUNGES: SCULPT YOUR LEGS
What you’re working: Quads, glutes, hamstrings, calves, while your core helps keep you balance.
How to do it: Starting from the standing position, lunge backward at a 45-degree angle to the right, making sure your left knee does not extend over your foot. Explode from that lunge position back to the standing position. With only enough time to regain balance, lunge right back down, on the left side, going backward in another 45-degree angle. Explode back from lunge to standing postion to complete one repetition; repeat for one minute.
Tip: As you lunge, keep your eyes looking straight ahead and focus on keeping your core engaged to maintain balance.
MODIFIED CHAIR DIPS: TONE THOSE TRICEPS
What you’re working: Triceps, pectorals, rhomboids, deltoids, traps, lats and biceps.
How to do it: Firmly grip a chair, table or any firm object that will support your weight. Fingers should be facing your back and your knees should be bent with feet shoulder width apart and flat on the ground. Lower yourself until your arms are bent at 90-degree angle and then push yourself back till arms are straight again. Repeat for one minute.
Tip: To make this more difficult you can straighten your legs and even raise one leg at a time while you continue to dip.
CARDIO TIME: BURN SOME SERIOUS CALORIES
What you’re working: The whole body is engaged in this exercise.
How to do it: With feet shoulder-width apart, perform a squat, place hands on ground and thrust both legs back at the same time until you are in full plank position. While maintaining the plank position, move your hands and feet sideways at the same time for a count of three. From the plank position, perform six mountain climbers (in push up position, move your feet back and forth rapidly). Using your core, bring your legs back up to a squat position with feet shoulder-width apart and stand back up. This completes one repetition.
Tip: To modify you can step back to plank position and step back up at end of rotation. You can also remove the lateral movement if this is too difficult, however you eventually want to work your way up to include this in the exercise.
LATERAL JUMPS: GET THOSE QUADS BURNING
What you’re working: The whole body is engaged in this exercise.
How to do it: Starting from the standing position with feet a little wider than shoulder-width, squat down and touch the floor. Explode into a lateral jump moving to the right. As you jump, reach your hands above yourself. Land with legs apart and go right into the squat position again, squatting down and touching the floor. Explode back up jumping to the left and landing softly again. Repeat for two minutes.
Tip: To decrease intensity, replace the lateral jump with a lateral step. Also, if you cannot touch the floor without placing too much strain on your knees, simply go as deep as you can, reaching straight down with your arms.
INCH WORMS: GET KILLER ABS
What you’re working: Obliques, hip flexors and other muscles are engaged to maintain stabilization as you move through this exercise.
How to do it: Starting from plank position like you are going to do a pushup, walk your feet towards your hands in baby steps. Once you get to the point when you have to start bending your legs, start walking your hands forward in baby steps until you are back in the plank position. Repeat for one minute.
Tip: Go nice and slow. Controlled movements will keep your core engaged throughout and you’ll get a better burn. Also, keep your head in alignment with your back.
For best results, perform this routine three times a week for three weeks, making sure to increase intensity (the number of reps in each one-minute timeframe) each week. Two days a week, you will need to put in 30 minutes of cardio or yoga. After a couple of weeks, you should start feeling stronger, have more energy and notice your clothes feeling looser.
HOW IT WORKS
Here's an overview of the 30-minute routine, and click ahead for descriptions of each exercise.
1. Warm up for eight minutes. You can do whatever you like to get your heart rate up. Do some jumping jacks, jog in place or dance to your favorite song.
2. Do one minute of jungle squats. (Lower body)
3. Do one minute of push ups. (Upper body)
4. Do one minute of reverse V lunges. (Lower body)
5. Do one minute of modified chair dips. (Upper body)
6. Do two minutes of cardio. (Whole body)
7. Do one minute of abs exercises. (Whole body)
8. Take a 30 second break.
Repeat steps 2 through 8, three times.
JUNGLE SQUAT: TONE YOUR THIGHES AND BUTT
What you're working: Quads, glutes, hamstrings and calves, while your core muscles keep you stable with correct form.
How to do it: Start out in a basic squat position, making sure your knees are not extending beyond your toes and with weight distributed evenly on your heels. Pivot to the right 90 degrees on left foot while maintaining the squat position. Pivot back to starting point, staying in squat position and then pivot to the left 90 degrees on right foot. Pivot back to starting point and come out of squat position. While standing up, do not lock your knees. This is one Jungle Squat; repeat for one minute.
Tip: Be sure to keep core engaged and back straight the whole time.
PUSH UP: TONE YOUR ARMS
What you’re working: Pectorals, deltoids, triceps and traps, while core keeps you stable with correct form.
How to do it: This is a modified pushup, but you can’t cheat and use your knees! Try it on the floor first, starting in plank position and lowering yourself down. Be sure to keep the lower body in alignment with upper body, being careful not to arch your back either way. Lower your body to about fist height off floor and then push yourself back up to plank position. Quality over quantity is the name of this game. Continue for one minute.
Tip: For a modification, do an elevated push up using either a chair, bed, bench, bar or other object that will hold your weight and not cause you to fall. Use the same form you would use on the floor, maintaining that good body position.
REVERSE V LUNGES: SCULPT YOUR LEGS
What you’re working: Quads, glutes, hamstrings, calves, while your core helps keep you balance.
How to do it: Starting from the standing position, lunge backward at a 45-degree angle to the right, making sure your left knee does not extend over your foot. Explode from that lunge position back to the standing position. With only enough time to regain balance, lunge right back down, on the left side, going backward in another 45-degree angle. Explode back from lunge to standing postion to complete one repetition; repeat for one minute.
Tip: As you lunge, keep your eyes looking straight ahead and focus on keeping your core engaged to maintain balance.
MODIFIED CHAIR DIPS: TONE THOSE TRICEPS
What you’re working: Triceps, pectorals, rhomboids, deltoids, traps, lats and biceps.
How to do it: Firmly grip a chair, table or any firm object that will support your weight. Fingers should be facing your back and your knees should be bent with feet shoulder width apart and flat on the ground. Lower yourself until your arms are bent at 90-degree angle and then push yourself back till arms are straight again. Repeat for one minute.
Tip: To make this more difficult you can straighten your legs and even raise one leg at a time while you continue to dip.
CARDIO TIME: BURN SOME SERIOUS CALORIES
What you’re working: The whole body is engaged in this exercise.
How to do it: With feet shoulder-width apart, perform a squat, place hands on ground and thrust both legs back at the same time until you are in full plank position. While maintaining the plank position, move your hands and feet sideways at the same time for a count of three. From the plank position, perform six mountain climbers (in push up position, move your feet back and forth rapidly). Using your core, bring your legs back up to a squat position with feet shoulder-width apart and stand back up. This completes one repetition.
Tip: To modify you can step back to plank position and step back up at end of rotation. You can also remove the lateral movement if this is too difficult, however you eventually want to work your way up to include this in the exercise.
LATERAL JUMPS: GET THOSE QUADS BURNING
What you’re working: The whole body is engaged in this exercise.
How to do it: Starting from the standing position with feet a little wider than shoulder-width, squat down and touch the floor. Explode into a lateral jump moving to the right. As you jump, reach your hands above yourself. Land with legs apart and go right into the squat position again, squatting down and touching the floor. Explode back up jumping to the left and landing softly again. Repeat for two minutes.
Tip: To decrease intensity, replace the lateral jump with a lateral step. Also, if you cannot touch the floor without placing too much strain on your knees, simply go as deep as you can, reaching straight down with your arms.
INCH WORMS: GET KILLER ABS
What you’re working: Obliques, hip flexors and other muscles are engaged to maintain stabilization as you move through this exercise.
How to do it: Starting from plank position like you are going to do a pushup, walk your feet towards your hands in baby steps. Once you get to the point when you have to start bending your legs, start walking your hands forward in baby steps until you are back in the plank position. Repeat for one minute.
Tip: Go nice and slow. Controlled movements will keep your core engaged throughout and you’ll get a better burn. Also, keep your head in alignment with your back.
Cellulite 101
Are your thighs and hips plagued by bumpy, cottage-cheese style skin? You're not alone. Approximately 80 percent of women suffer from cellulite. So, what can you do about this unsightly condition?
What Is Cellulite?
Cellulite appears when the connective cords that tether your skin to muscle push against an area of fat cells. As the fat cells push out, the cords pull down creating an uneven surface on your skin. Cellulite can range from hard-to-see dimples to deeper ripples in your skin surface. It most often occurs on the hips, thighs, and backsides of women. Medically, it's completely harmless.
What Causes Cellulite?
Gaining even a small amount of weight can worsen the appearance of cellulite, but the primary culprit is genetics. Aging, less elastic skin is at greater risk for cellulite and studies have shown that stress, hormone changes, and inactivity can also be blamed. Despite the fact that cellulite is caused by expanding fat cells, remaining thin doesn't make you immune to the problem if you're genetically predisposed to it.
I found a blog and it really catches my eyes.
http://lalette.boink.ro/celebrities-prowdly-wearing-cellulite/
Female celebrities fighing (or not) with cellulite.
Not all uf us have been blessed with a firm tooshie, nice smooth legs and flat tummy. Even with long workouts and a balanced diet, expensive treatments and sauna, we just can`t get rid of the annoying cellulite. We can diminish it, of course, but it never completely fades away.
We look up to them, we pay a lot of money to see them but the celebrities also seem to have the same problem as us, mortals do. But given the amount some of them have, I would say theyare not ven trying to reduce the amount of cellulite invading their expensively insured bodies.
Here are 4 of the main ways to combat cellulite:
1. Exercises which target certain areas with cellulite help a great deal.
2. Eating a properly balanced diet is tremendously successful in clearing the toxins and fatty tissue from your body that result in cellulite.
3. Even massages and saunas have been proven to help since they aid in the elimination process, which clears fatty build up, and in turn clears cellulite.
4. Drinking more water also helps with elimination and cleansing your system from cellulite. So be sure to get your 6-8 glasses each and every day.
The Science Behind Beauty Sleep
You've heard that "beauty sleep" is important, but do you know why? Nanette B. Silverberg, MD, the director of Pediatric and Adolescent Dermatology at St. Luke's-Roosevelt Hospital Center, and Clinical professor of Dermatology at Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons, explains the science behind beauty sleep, and what restful slumber can do for your skin.
According to Silverberg, sleep is the state of altered psychomotor brain activity that helps your organs perform at their best-and that includes your skin. While you sleep, your nervous and vascular systems recharge themselves. In addition, sleep improves your immune function and supports collagen production and elastin retention.
If you've ever pulled an all-nighter for a college paper or because your little one wouldn't let you sleep, you know how blotchy and pale your skin can look the next morning. Silverberg says this is due to the excess blood vascular activity and abnormal nerve activity in the skin. You may also notice more pronounced facial lines because of increased muscle tone that is caused by prolonged activity (which is why you may look older than usual). When your skin doesn't have time to rejuvenate through the process of sleep, it becomes more vulnerable to skin illnesses, and the collagen and elastin break down.
According to Silverberg, sleep is the state of altered psychomotor brain activity that helps your organs perform at their best-and that includes your skin. While you sleep, your nervous and vascular systems recharge themselves. In addition, sleep improves your immune function and supports collagen production and elastin retention.
If you've ever pulled an all-nighter for a college paper or because your little one wouldn't let you sleep, you know how blotchy and pale your skin can look the next morning. Silverberg says this is due to the excess blood vascular activity and abnormal nerve activity in the skin. You may also notice more pronounced facial lines because of increased muscle tone that is caused by prolonged activity (which is why you may look older than usual). When your skin doesn't have time to rejuvenate through the process of sleep, it becomes more vulnerable to skin illnesses, and the collagen and elastin break down.
1.07.2011
Sun Square Saturn
Saturn is all about responsibility and learning useful and necessary, but sometimes hard life lessons. And right now, the Sun is shining a big, bright spotlight on this tough-love planet. Over time, this event will actually prove benevolent and will certainly work in your favor, if you do your part too. However, in the immediate future, Saturn has a lesson for you to learn and if you resist, things could get messy. The thing to remember is that Saturn reminds us to pull our heads out of the clouds, so we don't fall painfully into a dirty pothole later. Yes, you will likely face delays and setbacks now. You may even have to own up to a couple of mistakes. But at some point in the not-too-distant future, you'll look back on these events with gratitude.
With this understanding of how Saturn works, what are the next steps?
1) Stop whatever you're doing
2) Take a step back
3) Breathe
4) Look around until you can completely see the whole picture. Where do you see current or potential problems cropping up? Is it your job, your relationship, your finances? Maybe all you need is something as simple as a preventative check up for your health or your car?
5) Once everything is in view, determining what needs to be fixed and how to go about doing it should become apparent.
As soon as you address the issues Saturn is concerned about, you'll move forward with your life with more success and effectiveness.
To counter the severity of Saturn, the 7th will also see romantic, social Venus move into fiery Sagittarius. This is a great chance to grab friends and try some new activity (Rock climbing? Ballroom dancing? A new and exotic restaurant?). Or perhaps you'd rather throw some flamboyant party or get together. Regardless of what you decide to try, make sure you do something. You're practically guaranteed to have fun. You'll also find that it's more important than ever for your lover to be both passionate and to provide sufficient mental stimulation as well. The best relationships (romantic or otherwise) are always between best friends.
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